What if it turns out that you have not loved yourself?
My intention is not to lower your self-esteem ... for anything more than the opposite. But if it turns out that you really have not loved yourself enough and after reading this blog you accept it. It means that you are already starting to love yourself. Well maybe you already feel that you love yourself and really do it. Congratulations. Or ... you think you love yourself and not really. Ok, I understand I'm dizzy let's go to it.
Love yourself
Loving him can be many things like:
Move towards your dreams and stop being just dreams
Don´t judging you for something you have not chosen. Neither let you feel good or bad.
To love you is to believe in your capacity when nobody else does it. He is betting on you when the world gives you up for dead.
To love you is to live for something that stimulates you. It is not your family, your partner or your neighbor.
To love you is to work on what you like. If you can not, in a way that leads you.
Loving you is taking care of your health
To love you is to stop wasting you time on things that do not lead you anywhere
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Yes ... self-love is demonstrated by actions and not only by words.
Maybe you skip the diet. Your goals are in the archivist. you hate yourself . You do not take care of your body. You lose your time. You sabotage. You allow negative thoughts to constantly move in your mind. etc.
All those things mean only one... you do not love yourself enough.
Life is too beautiful to miss the opportunity to live happily and with love. because if you love you can love others and that is a rule of GOLD.
And if it's your case ... What are you going to do?
I understand that sometimes it can be difficult. It costs but if I tell you that your self-esteem is going to increase. You will be happier. Yoy will really love your loved ones and have more fun. That sounds good. Then, what are you going to do? Make the decision right now. And do you know why now? Because you love yourself because you respect your time of life. As simple as that.
Grow in your life as a person In health. In your projects. In your relationships and you will see how life becomes more fun. Enjoy your loneliness as your company.
You'll have your low moments and it's fine. It is normal. Your brain is like an emotional muscle. Each time you will become stronger. Now a personal recommendation. Every time I find myself in a low moment I remind myself that why I do not start to be well right now if I know that sooner or later I will be fine again. So I laugh and I feel better.
Ending ...
All this with self-love becomes easier.
Thank you for your attention and really love yourself. Someone who loves him self has no excuses.
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