Not Just Miss, But 7 It's Also You Will Get From Long Distance Relationships

in #love7 years ago

Because every long distance relationship does not just produce longs. But more than that.
For you who are undergoing long distance relationship, longing words can not be separated from both of you. Given the distance plus the busy routine makes you can not meet every time. While the longing to arrive, the things you can do if you do not contact him via phone or hold off until when. But is it just miss and miss that you or he can get from this long distance relationship ?

Because in fact there are some things that may be much more meaningful that you can get from this distance relationship. Hipwee Relationships write for you, fighters of distance and longing, some things you should get when long-distance relationships with him. Let your waiting so far not only bear fruit nostalgic taste.

Independence to deal with various things. Not necessarily this can be obtained if you continue to side by side

Because every long distance relationship does not just produce longs. But more than that.

Establishing a long distance relationship means you and he can not always be together. The distance between you requires you to be able to do things alone. Like going to monthly shopping to attend invitation. As time passes, you are initially forced to do these things alone, get used to it. Your independence is also increasing.

Independence is what you deserve. Instead of being a person who always depends on your guy.

There is a kind of bond that continues to exist, to make your belief grow stronger than ever

Trust in the relationship is absolute. Especially when you undergo long distance relationship. Trust is supposed to be twice (or even more) greater than the previous one. For, there will be a kind of bond that continues between you and him, stretching as far as the distance between you.

The lack of intensity to meet, make you a person who better understand the art of managing time

One of the challenges in a long distance relationship is to equate your free time to just chatting or meeting via a glass screen. Because of the different busyness that makes it difficult for you to find the right time for it. If you have no overtime and have a chance to take time off, your guy is really busy there.

The lack of intensity of your meetings not only produces a longing, but also the ability to manage time. Your time management will be slightly honed with the long-distance relationship. You better understand when it's time to be busy with your own obligations and make time for both of you.

Any quarrels that occur, do not make you further away from him. Precisely this is your place to learn to accept each other

Not always long distance relationship was minimal argument. Precisely the distance often becomes embers that easily spark an argument. However, after a long relationship with him, no longer a quarrel full of drama that you get. It is a quality argument that you can make momentum to understand each other and accept each person.

Not only the relationship is getting better, but your personality is always upgraded after so long did not meet, one of them about your patience

Establishing a long-distance relationship does not mean you keep focused on your relationship until you ignore yourself. Precisely at this moment you can continue to improve your quality. You can do useful things while living the relationship. Slowly, the best version of you will always increase at your next meeting.

The ability to solve both problems is more honed, even though you and he are far apart

Every problem in the relationship should be solved. Do not see if you always meet or separate the distance. By the time you undergo this long-distance relationship, your ability to solve problems will be honed again. Because, you and he will inevitably have to solve the problem well although not able to meet each other so that your relationship can keep running.

The love that every day feels increasing. That indirectly brings you closer to split apart

You could say, if you do not get this, your long distance relationship will be close to the word loss. Therefore, love is one of the main foundations in a relationship. That love also indirectly will bring you closer. So, even though you and he are far apart, but it seems each one is still on the side.

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4 years going on. Thousands of miles apart and because of that we are closer than any other couple we know of the same age.

I can attest to what you said. It seems like you speak from experience in every single of the facets of LDR.

Hahahaha LoL..... Sorry. Teach me how to speak

By the way do you speak Bahasa Melayu or Tagalog?

Good insights. My wife and I started out long-distance for the first 8 months of our relationship. Many lessons learned and a major factor in the strength of our 15 years together now.

Thats sad story dear. So know how its going

ouch! I'm in a LDR. It's hard but it's okay. I'm used to it.

Hehe nice story lol. Big

Im in my first LDR and its always challenging.

Really.... Thats very intersting guy.

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