Hey guys, this is a sociological research experiment to explore in detail how challenging it is, odds-of-meetup-wise, for people to find the type of really ideal lifelong match, that mythical often dreamed-about "perfect" romantic partner - without the other person having been explicitly programmed for this purpose (e.g.: a Simulated Artificial General Intelligence inside a Virtuality Environment)
Here I'll give you the most fun part right away :
=MOVIES TO UNDERSTAND WHERE I'M COMING FROM=
[M] ~> Nightcrawler ['14] + Black Swan ['10] = Who I Am
[A]^ ~> Shame ['11] + Her ['13] = What I Need
[G] ~> Notes on a Scandal ['06] + Drive ['11] = How I Am
[L] ~> Europa Report ['13] + Transcendence ['14] = What I Do
++ Additional Reference Material : Repossession Men ['10] | The Dark Knight ['08] | Tom Yum Goong ['05] | Ex Machina ['15] | Elysium ['13] | Chronicle ['12] ++
[1] {M} [Nature] [Social/Emotional] Compatible Genetic Phenotype ?? Emotional Health/Stability/Integrity ?? Maturity/Sense of Responsibility ?? Any Emotional/Sexual Abuse/Insecurity ?? Willingness to avoid Fear/Guilt/Shame 'Protective Mode' Responses & Instead Strive for Parasympathetic 'Learning Mode' Responses ??
[2] {A}^ [Nature] [Physical/Emotional] Can you be genuinely, comfortably affectionate, authentically intimate, willing to please the reasonably worthy & receptive to be pleased, open to sharing & stretching out of old zones of comfort into conscious facing of fears, healing, and learning, allowing one to find integrity, balance, emotional health thus ultimately happiness with a partner ??
[3] {G} [Nurture] [Social/Cultural] What is a Romantic Intimate Love Relationship ?? What is a Casual Intimate Love Relationship ?? How should we feel (Re-Evaluation of Subconscious Assumptions & Preconceptions) about them, and the events and life situations which arise around them ?? What should we expect to get out of them ?? Can you recognize the delusional 'romanticized love' Western concept, as a set of contradictions, falsehoods and illusions that operate subconsciously to shape behaviors and relationships, and direction of one's life ?? What is True Equality ?? How affected by the contrived influence from media/cultural bias/inadequate parents/devaluation of men & overabundance of male attention ??
[4] {L} [Nurture] [Intellectual/Cultural] Do you relate with, understand, respect intellectual/analytical/philosophical/insightful behaviors/thoughts ?? Are you crude & vague or do you enjoy intellectual accuracy & sophisticated refinement ??
Causes For [1] Deficiency -> Inadequate Parents individually causing maladaptation & unfulfilling childhoods, and societally, en masse, resulting in Culture of Emotional Isolation & Passive Hostility Resulting in Bullying/Bad Work Environments/Etc which reinforces the stigma of the inadequate parenting.
Causes For [2] Deficiency -> Inadequate Parents individually causing maladaptation & unfulfilling childhoods, and societally, en masse, resulting in Culture of Emotional Isolation & Passive Hostility Resulting in Bullying/Bad Work Environments/Etc which reinforces the stigma of the inadequate parenting.
Causes For [3] Deficiency -> Explained Under Associated Literature : Romanticized Love being a set of contradictory falsehoods & illusions operating subconsciously to shape automatic preconceptions, behaviors & relationships, resulting in impaired intimate relationships & impoverished sense of social consciousness.
[1] The Big Question ~ Would it be possible for an exceptional modern human to meet these criteria ?? Or, is it not true indeed, that for anyone as described here to have a functional romantic relationship w/ someone, the Significant Other would have to be an AI created on purpose, basically.
[2] The Gauntlet ~ Would it be possible to in turn meet this exceptionally implausible given person's criteria ??
{M} {A}^ {G} and {L} are the 4 points that people would have to share a similar level/score on, in order to be compatible enough to marry.
:: Greek Love Types ::
Romantic Intimate [Agape] REQ's : [M][A][G][L]
Sentimental Platonic [Storge] REQ's : [M][G][L]
Natural Intimate [Eros] REQ's : [M][A]
Casual Platonic [Philia] REQ's : [L]
Bonus (?) : Do you think it's possible for two individuals in love to experience a complete, genuine, non-begrudging, unregretful, unemotional indifference to the realities of romantic relationship in which "2nd base", "3rd base", & "home run" intimate activities are entirely non-prioritized ; while "1st base", emotional, & non-contact (sensory) intimacy is highly prioritized, along with a large, non-maintenance tolerance(or preference.. ;o) for porn..?
Please tell me what you think! Just zooming in on a single subtopic among^ the above would be perfect to start ;p
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