Love is not blind

People keep on blaming love for every thing that happens and I wonder why. While growing up, I used to point to love as the cause of heartbreaks and disappointment until I got the revelation of love itself. Love is just a feeling. It brings people together. Whatever you do with yourself doesn’t concern love but the both of you. Love is so deep but the owners are careless. That’s the game.

Is Love ever blind?

What’s the answer then?

Bidemi says “Love is so damn wicked” and I asked why? She said; “I keep falling in love but they keep taking me for granted. I get so committed but they just never get that deep with me. I give them my body, soul, heart, money, time, everything but it all ends in tears for me.” I asked her some questions and her answer proved she has been falling in love with guys who don’t even know their bearing yet, Who are not even close to God, they don’t even have a vision. But she keeps feeling they would get better.

The truth is : Don’t ever manage a relationship. You deserve better.

Bolade says “All women are devils” and I wondered why? He said she kept asking and demanding for money and I used to give her because I loved her. Not until I saw her with her sugar daddy right on the same bed we used to make love.

When a lady keeps asking for money, you need to watch out for them. Some ladies are just ready to suck a man dry. They don’t ever think of a future but all they think is how to end with a rich man that can take care of their family too. Gain your respect by working out your success too.

Fadekemi dated a guy for 3years and he kept maltreating her emotionally, physically and sexually but she kept enduring because he settles her bills.

What happened to her being independent?

Ladies have developed a culture for depending on men. These men have their own lives too so stop being a liability to him. It was all her fault thought but she kept saying love is fake and wicked.

Men and women keep suffering from heart breaks but the truth is there are also some signs that show in the relationship. A man keeps beating you and you keep loving him blindly. She keeps demanding for heaven and earth, and you keep giving.

Some men don’t even have time to spice up their relationship, some ladies don’t bother too. People keep double dating and taking advantage of other people’s heart.

My advise is this: Open your eyes, don’t love blindly. Watch out for signs and walk on them. Don’t ever think you can change a person. Its either you walk out now and get ready to endure but don’t ever blame love.

The answer is: Love has never and would never be blind. Its the humans that are loving blindly and foolishly.

Love is a free spirit, Let it be………..