Smart ladies don't enter relationships with their
hearts, they enter with their heads. If you are too
emotional, you will become a football in the hand
of playboys!
.
So many ladies are broken, battered and
shattered
by agents of satan they call lovers because they
keep their brains in their purse while entering the
relationship and get burnt forever! If you give
your
heart to the wrong man too soon, he will shatter
you and blame you for being so stupid!
.
Start your relationships on logic not emotion!
Enter with your head not your heart. Be
inquisitive. Spend the few months getting to
know
the guy instead of declaring the love that does
not
yet exist. Know how to answer and ask
questions.
.
Never be naive with a man. Until you trust him,
never tell him you love him, he will play with your
emotions, get your back on the ground and tell
the
world you seduced him.
Godly men exist but how will you know he is
godly if you don't open your ears, eyes and
brain?
.
Some men are scared of intelligent women, they
get threatened and try to make a fool out of you!
If he doesn't respect your values and principles,
quit the relationship before he quits it. Ending it
first is a smart choice you will make. It helps you
save face and keep your self esteem intact.
.
Do not compromise your standard for anybody.
Raise your head, tilt your chin, stand tall and
declare "I am a virtuous woman, I will not
cheapen
myself before any man."
If after all the prayers, questions, inquiries and
test, you discover he is the king fit for your
heart,
you can then slowly, gradually and wisely open
your heart to him but if not, end the relationship
without any apology. A little word is enough for
the wise.
Stay blessed.
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