So why do smart people fall in love harder? Love is difficult to understand even when it comes from our own feelings.
Smart people analyze the feelings - both theirs own and others.
Smart people are able to gather information and draw conclusions. This is both an advantage and a drawback, as they tend to escape from a relationship at the first sign of a problem. Misunderstanding? Kaggy? Sorry, we are not created for each other. Bye!
They need enough time to find themselves in front of a person.
The brain does not stop working and reveals many details and reasons why something can go wrong. As a result, intelligent people find themselves much more difficult than others. They know and understand that any connection is a risk. For this reason they often look cold and distant, although they do not necessarily have to be such.
They match the situation with past experiences.
This is another trap in which smart people often fall. It is not necessarily the things that have ruined their previous ties to do the same now. It's hard to realize, though. They remember how painful the last separation was and subconsciously project this experience on the person they are with.
To be alone is their conscious choice
This is a fact. The smart people clearly see that it is better and more comfortable to be alone than to be with someone who is not the "right person." This is a conscious and well thought-out solution. In most cases, these people are not alone due to circumstances, but because they want to. And they feel awesome.
because they want to and it feel awesome :) to be free is to be one with everything hahahaha xD
hehe no, i think to be free is to be yourself and not to be one with everything :D
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Sounds like you probably mean "introvert" when you say "smart" in this post. They are kind of two different things, though there is often a correlation due to a tendency to appreciate books, and other autodidactic benefits.
Speaking as an introvert myself, one of the main challenges is to find ways to turn off the self-consciousness in some circumstances. For instance when giving a presentation or performance in front of an audience is no time to be shy.
Another challenge is finding avenues to interact with people that can allow you to gauge mutual attraction fairly early and painlessly.
It is possible to be extroverted and smart and introverted and dumb as a stump. Saying "smart" is a safe description because it implies that a person thinks well not necessarily educated well. It isn't necessarily wisdom because that is a function of experience. It isn't necessarily a function of intelligence because there are lots of intelligent people (high IQ) who are neither wise nor smart (see dumb as a stump).
Yes , introvert is more correctly. I am introvert too. I understand what you talking about :)