All you need to know to have a long lasting relationship..

in #love7 years ago

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Promiscuous sexual behavior has resulted in a life or death crisis for the entire human population. Right now one out of six people is affected with a venereal diseases. That includes AIDS and 28 other transmitted ailments. If the trend continue at the present pace, the figure will double and increase to one out of three people.

There will be no cheating when your partner discoveres you are the greatest. About half of all marriages, begun in happiness, end in break ups. No one ever taught us how to enhance sexual pleasure and make love last. We hear about the problems rather than the solutions. Lovers who no longer feel the passion, turn away from each other. #note changing partners doesn't change the problem.

For many, marriage has become less endearing, and more of an endurance contest. Sex has a three good purpose. Beyond recreation and procreation, it can be a sacrament of unity. When all three needs are fulfilled, it presages lifelong happiness in a stable, enduring marriage which respect the dignity of human life. Long term alliances can become better with time.

Monogamy without monotony can curb the spreed of ravaging diseases and put an end to the catastrophe of broken homes, economic disaster and the shattered lives of millions of displaced children. Sexual ignorance and dysfunction have battered traditional family values. Long term lovers do not have to settle for short term passion.

The magic and mystery of long lasting soul mating is that two people coming from different backgrounds and values become so intertwined and sensitive to each others need, that they are content for the rest of their lives to have no other lover but their one and only. What a wondrous state of being.

You can share their spirit and become whatever your mind and spirit will allow. The saddest thing is when two people, who have loved each other passionately, become disenchanted and behave like hostile strangers. They may sitting across from each other at the breakfast table with the mind and heart miles apart. Each one may feel injured and hopeless and blame the other. If you have a significant other, cherish the joy and nourish the love.

If you don't have a one and only, and are still searching to find that certain somebody, there is a safe solution. It's enjoying outercourse before risking intercourse. You will find safe sex can be so thrilling, you'll be happy to trade musical beds for mutual fidelity.

Thanks so much for taking out time to read this post.

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