I used to have a hardest time with one of my best friends. As I mentioned in previous post, I have some childhood friends and she is one of them. We were really close and she was my roommate of 4 academic years. We lived together, discussed everyday but never feel annoy. That is why I thought apart from her, I cant live with any one else.
But suddenly, there were some reasons made me and her feel cold with each other. There was a distance between us. I don’t know why. Actually I knew, but not sure. She rejected my every question relate to main reason made we became like that. And after a lot of efforts, I gave up trying to talk to her. About 6 months later, when the thought of losing a best friend made me can not bear any more, I asked her to have some drink. I and her and another best friend drank together and when we began to be drunk, we play the game called "tell me the truth". Some one would ask and some one had to tell the truth no matter what question was. Firstly, that game was just for fun. But after that, we felt tired, turned off the light and laid down, we gradually got more sincere. That was my turn, I asked her " why are you so cold with me like that?". She was confused for a second and started to tell me a story, a heartbreaking story. That was not my fault, but that related to me and made her cannot feel comfortable with me any more. I understood verything and sympathized with her. She shared a darkest side of her life. I didn’t know about it. No one knew about it. In the darkness, in the small room, on warm bad, three little girls stayed quiet without saying any word. I didn’t see anything, but I knew her was crying. All of us were silient and crying. I wanted to hug her and said something. But guilty feelling made me cant move. In that night, I promised with myself that I would treat her better for the rest of my life and never hurt her again.
After that night, We were relieved and started talking with each other more and more, as if nothing had happened. I realise that nothing is more valuable than good friends. If I had totally given up, if I had not tried to make last effort, I would have lose my best friend forever.
You should remember that friends are the best precious gift that God gives us. Never let them go. Never lose them.
Love, HB
wow such a heartwarming post. what ive learned in my short 30 years of life is that communication and honesty are the only way to make any form of relationship work. often it hurts, but is is necessary for growth. if you cant be honest with a person you might not be true friends. I have been in the same situation many times and I can attest to your thought that face to face communication is the only answer. glad to hear you and your friend are back on the same page. keep it that way. we all need friends and some support. upvoted and resteeming. i can relate to this. ive been the one afraid to speak up and also the one that spoke up too soon. in both situations, it ended well due to blatant honesty and damn it wasnt fun at all! thanks for sharing your life experience @hanggggbeeee! beautiful words
thank you a lot. my friend.
no problem!!
It's sad story with good ending based on true life events. I wish I had best friend like that too, but unfortunately I don't talk with my closest friend for about 3 moths. So sad that I'm so busy with my life a lot and missing all beautiful things.
Tks a lot. You dont need to talk to them every day. But you should keep being in touch with them. Every relationship bases on caring each other . Friendship is not an exception :)
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What a gooooood post, girl who has a warm heart :)
see the number of view. and compare with the number of upvote. huhu
i m following you, follow me please...
tks for following. I will follow you, my friend
thanks beautiful friend
someone begging you to follow ... what is going on? I thought you are some kind of whale
nope. i just a tiny fish. ^^
Beautiful post, great photos
sorry i cant see the icon in order to resteem. maybe its the internet here in Vietnam. either way, i gave ya an upvote. thanks again. time to skype some old friends now!!! lol
sorry i cant see the icon in order to resteem. maybe its the internet here in Vietnam. either way, i gave ya an upvote. thanks again. time to skype some old friends now!!! lol
sorry i cant see the icon in order to resteem. maybe its the internet here in Vietnam. either way, i gave ya an upvote. thanks again. time to skype some old friends now!!! lol