There is no dating guide in the world that indicates the exact number of trips to the cinema, the park or dinner to see if a relationship has a future. Each case is a different world and not all couples have the same rhythm, so take into account that in matters of love there are no magic numbers.
So, how to know what is the right time to talk seriously about a relationship without ending up losing everything? Let's talk a little about it.
Feeling good and at ease is the key
The important thing is that you feel comfortable with that person, although the connection between them will not always arrive during the first date. Fear of the unknown and the desire to make a good impression could make you have a hard time, so other meetings may be necessary.
The experts in matters of the heart have come to affirm that for the third exit you must already feel if that person is the most indicated in your life, although there are those who do not take the matter so lightly and can take the "big step" after of ten or more romantic encounters .
However, the essential thing here is not to launch yourself from the plane without a parachute if you have not yet managed to "click" with the other person. Otherwise, imagine how disastrous, traumatic and depressing that could be. Remember that you are not obliged to say "yes" if you have doubts. The time or the number of appointments are not decisive. Some people need a meeting to know that they can take the next step and live happily ever after.
How to know if he is willing
Do you really like it? Perfect, then, despite the physical attraction that you can get to feel, it is natural that you want to put the matter on hold and wait for some signal that tells you that this person is really willing to do everything with you.
If he talks to you about future plans together , then the matter is serious. If you refer positively to relationships as a couple, you may want to formalize your own, so take the opportunity.
The big sign is to confirm that you are not dating someone else. That he asks your opinion about relationships is also a sign that at that moment he wants to be with you forever.
It does not matter how many appointments you need to know if the relationship has potential or not . It may be one or there may be many, the important thing is that you feel that it is the right one.
How many dates do you usually expect to take the next step?
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