Most of us believe that there is a soulmate for everyone of us, that special person that you can meet only once in a lifetime (that, of course, if you’re lucky enough), when between you two there is an instant physical, emotional and spiritual connection, at the most profound level.
Here are a few signs that you might have found the right person for you.
Some psychologists believe that, when you found your true soulmate, you two can communicate without even talking. That means that you might finish each other sentences, you might call or text one another at the same time, or you simply feel that you can’t exist without him/her.
Besides this spiritual connection, the physic attraction is really strong, and it doesn’t manifest only in a sexual way. It’s enough to hold their hand to feel that you’re flying, even after many years of relationship.
Another sign that you found the one is that you feel really comfortable with each other from the beginning. Soulmates create a connection from the first moment, they feel that they can be themselves and they find it very easy to open up their hearts and be honest without any hesitation.
Also, you know you are with the right person when you bump into obstacles, but you overcome them. If you think that the relationship with your soulmate has to be perfect, you’re wrong. “The one” for you will help you evolve and reach your higher self, even if that means that he/she’ll step on your nerves from time to time.
Another aspect of a perfect match is the way you two see the important things in life. Soulmates are often on the same page when it comes to the big aspects of your lives. This doesn’t mean that you share the exact same thoughts on some things, but your goals are mostly the same.
The last sign that you found your soulmate is so predictable, but also so true. As cliché as it might sound, when you find the one your heart simply knows it. There will be no doubt, you will know in the bottom of your heart that you found the right person. You will have a feeling that you had known each other for a very long time, maybe from another life.
When the time arrives, you won’t have to look for signs in magazines, because you will be sure of your feelings for each other.
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You know because both can’t see a future without one another, because you both support each other and can laugh, cry and call each other out.
What I love, I do not know today. I do not have any wish or not. It is astonishing that sometimes, when I wake up in the deep night, I hear the voice of the unreal, I see the mythical scene. Break the silence of the night and roar in my ears, There is no sea on the back.
If I do not have the moon in the sky and I see the full moon, I can recognize every star in the sky in the clouds. And on some other days, when a well-lit air is heard, first you can hear the name of a musical instrument, a beautiful melody, then whoever sings sweet melody more than the birds of the dawn
Do not think we're floating in the sea at night,
A melodious tune to flutter in the lake, so that
I can talk whispered with you ..........
Thanks for sharing @jwolf
While I agree about seeing all these signs in your soul mate, I can't help but wonder why in some cases, it changes with time.
Aren't soul mates supposed to last forever? At least till death do us part?
But often than not, intolerance, distrust, strife, envy etc wedge it's way between the two, leading to separation.
Maybe no one exists as soul mates.
I like your educational posts, but I really miss your posts about cryptocurrency! How is it going with your exams @jwolf?
I don't want to create posts about my own opinions and advices to cryptocurrency from personal reasons.
Exams going bad cause I am not focussed on 'em..
I understand so I will have to follow on FB this!
Ouch I am sure you will figure it ou
I don't believe in The One.
It's all about effort over time. A long time.
I am really grateful for my boyfriend. Our relationship concludes these signs that you described, and we are together for 7 years now. We just can be ourselves and also important thing is that we accept each others flaws. We lift each other up on the bad days and smile fully on the good. Thank you for sharing your post.
Great post! I know couples who need a lot of arguments to keep the relationship exciting and then there are couples where the two are so different, that you would never ever put them together, but still it works well between them and you can see the sparkle in their eyes. I feel like it's hard to tell how you act when you're really in love, but I think everyone has the same great feeling when he/she meets the right person :)
So true. especially when you said: "...when you found your true soulmate, you two can communicate without even talking". Remember when I met her and we talked 2 hours non-stop! We couldn't stop :D
~20% of communication is by words
~80% of communication is through subconscious
Thanks! Keep up. Followed :)
thanks for your valiuable tips as right finding partner is difficult with who you can spend your whole life....
you made easy for me to find your partners so i think The last sign that you found your soulmate is so predictable is much appricate i will follow that rules in my life...
by the way i see you post which is beneficial to me..
follow you and resteem your post...
thank you #jwolf
That’s literally true man eyes are just the mode of communication between the soulmates .
Meeting a soul is not a path of roses, at the beginning it is. But then the time comes to learn. That about ... and they were happy for life, pure fiction. In this way, you can not run away, notice that the ends of the same string can be found in the center, in other words it is about learning in the unit and you know that, they affirm that there are many who can not resist it, and forget that next to you soul mate is more powerful and accelerated
So Awesome post. i like it. life is life.
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Excellent post, thanks for sharing
Nyc...post brother...😙😙😙
love tree. I hope everyone finds the right person❤️.
Nice post thank you
when i fall in love first time,i didn,t see anything but her ,and it is still
Love is beauty of nature. The perfect match of life. Thank you very much for sharing.
Nice post bro :)
These will help ma alot . I think I just met the one . My official love
Thanks for the lovely post..... still single looking for my Soulmate <3
good You Post
yes, this is a tip for us teenagers who want to find pasangat life. before we choose the right thing, aka recognize the nature, read the character. is he who will be our life partner? and the thing that really is seen is the form of our comfort to the partner. thank you for the advice and knowledge of my friends, it's great to be friends with you.
That would be really cool if you could have somebody finish my sentences. Then I could blog 2 times as fast.
interesting aspect of life thanks for sharing this post it was wonderful to read : )
Thanks for sharing this! Love is Blind I hope you will share more posts like these i will also visit to your blog and follow you
I dnont know if is the perfect personal for me, It’s impossible because I need to see that person in all impossible and possible states. This is my opinion and can you can have another ideea about this :)
@jwolf interesting tips from you to find your heart's desire.
Soulmate is not coming from our dream. The person next to you can be your match if we take time to talk in truth, acceptance and giving state.
Thank you for this interesting post
The one will suck and give you the ass so there is that to know if you found the one
you know when after all argument you have, you still in love with that person so much that you willing to tolerate as long as it keeps being together...you just want to spend time with that person, you willing to sacrifice..so that is love....the person who occupies your heart and mind, emotionally and mentally ...if waiting for everything all perfect, meeting our need and want, we would never find love
Love is god gifted. Without love the life is valuless. Good post friend.
maybe I should try on the article you share, maybe it can help me in a relationship, because I often fail.
The incredible tree
love is unpredictable because love can come and can also go but one thing that can be believed that love survives.
i have not yet found one looks like that i got the hint thanks to you bro
what a creativity!
soul mates are very hard to find still single ;p
perfect match is very hard luck by chance
I read this post after I read your post on Tips to improve your learning skills and subsequently followed you. That post reminded me of some ideas that challenge me. I thought I would attempt to return the favor.
Let me start by saying that I agree with two great points you made.
On the whole however, I think this is a dangerous critique of "love". Most of your thoughts about this topic are based on feelings. The problem with feelings is that they are based on circumstances and states of being...both of which change. In the case of circumstances, the love of your life may be paralyzed or otherwise injured. It is easy to say, "yes, but that will not effect the way I feel because I love her." Try caring for an invalid for a few years and see if you do not have some feelings you wish you were not having. As for states of being, consider changing bodies, adding children to the equation, changes in interests as you age, changes in personality brought on by illness or natural decline in hormone levels.
In general the idea that there is one person out there for you is tantamount to saying that 99% of human beings are not with that one person they should be with. What if you live in America, but "the one" lives in Russia, or dies before you have a chance to meet, or an infinite set of other problems, because 8 billion people! There are frankly a lot of reasons the idea of "one true love" is problematic.
Another issue with this view of love is that while not practiced in the west, and while I am not necessarily advocating for it, there have been countless arranged marriages that have been loving, fruitful, meaningful, and fulfilling. These individuals did not find "the one", and this leads to my primary assertion. Love is not a feeling, love is a choice...or rather a series of choices.
When I first started on Steemit I wrote a post entitled Thoughts On Marriage And Divorce. This is an old post and my aim is not to monetize, but rather to add an alternative perspective closely related, and mostly contradictory, to your thoughts. This is not because I am trying to be an asshole, but simply because having discussions about what we believe and why we believe it is important.
You certainly have the right to your view. I simply hope you can give it some deeper thought before you decide you have settled or that you have indeed found "the one". In the first case you will be doing your spouse a disservice, and in the second you will be doing yourself one. I appreciate your post and have given it an upvote.
As an footnote, let me add that while...
Some psychologists also know that when you have placed all your bets on that feeling and "the one" decides to become an alcoholic, or develops mental illness, this feeling can be a factor in leading to codependency.
In all fairness, I understand the point though. Obviously I feel this way about my wife, but that feeling is the result of a long series of choices to love and not the other way around. Not to mention it is false. I can indeed choose to live even if my wife dies.
Nice write up @jwolf. Truth is, in most cases, staying in love is hard work. There are going to be days that even the the sweetest beings such as the ones we call soulmates will not feel or act like one. That's the time you need to snap out of the fantasy and make your relationship work. I don't believe there is any relationship without uphills but what makes it it all admirable by outsiders is the fact that the partners decided to make it work. Love is a sacrifice.
“When the time arrives, you wont have to look for signs in magazines, because you will be sure of your feelings for each other” your last line hits me! It’s true. 💖💖💖 Your post is just full of love and authenticity. I love it! Followed you, resteemed your post and upvoted you to see more posts of you! Hope you could follow me back, @jwolf! Lovelots, @joninacalara💛
"As cliché as it might sound, when you find the one your heart simply knows it." - yep, I believe in this. hehe. the heart will want what it wants and no one even the mind can stop it. hehe.