The big love does not exist!

Expectations are something very bad. From very little we get a certain idea of love and how it should look. We look for souls, present fireworks and a happy ending, we want that shattering feeling we think is love.

I think the truth is different. I think great love does not exist. There are choices - who to fall in love with, who we love, who to give our time and attention.

It would have been very sad if in our lives there was only one great love and so much. Love is purer and real when it's small when it's a piece when it's scattered in many things at once.

Then she charges, not drains. Then she reveals and is not locked in the cage of her own lonely existence.

When love is not lonely, she becomes braver because she knows she is not the only one in the world. Then love is overflowing with us, and we feel ourselves more. Because it is so incredible that you can love thousands of little things, not just one thing.

Love is and should be different. Because in our lives we will not love only one person and only one way.

The family is a fortress

We love all of our loved ones - mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles. We give them a piece of our love and we always get a share of love from them. They are our roots, what keeps us on the ground and gives us a sense of security and belonging. Because the storm can be cruel, but home is always waiting for shelter and a glass of warm tea.

Friendship is comfort

They consoled that there are other people who want to be our family. They consoled that there were other crazy people at our frequency. They consoled that people who were once unknown were now able to stand side by side with us in every difficulty. Friendship love is a special kind of love that builds with a lot of trusts and is tested over time.

Children are beauty

Who does not love the beautiful things in this gray life? Love to children is the strongest and purest feeling that can exist on this earth. Whether they are yours or just are you very dear - children are the thing that fills us with the most positive emotions and can spread our love without pity and measure.

Men are an adventure

Is there a woman who loves only one man in her life? But does she have a woman who loved two men equally strong and in the same way? Often, when we talk about great love, we think of our love for a man. Yes, it can be shattering, strong for life, but it is not the big love. It is the most important love because it makes us alive and more important, but it is not the greatest. It is part of the whole picture of our lives.

All these little pieces of love are part of the puzzle of our great love. The love with which we are born, but which we give our way. We do not have a great love, there is no man, woman or child to whom we can give everything because it is not complete as long as we are aware of people and we can love it.

We give a little here, a little there, but most importantly, we can never draw the line of Big Love, because it will always be inside us, ready to be distributed, ready to be put into a favorite activity, the food that we prepare in the love to the loved one and, most importantly, in ourselves!

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