Hey guys! My name is Paul and this is my 1st post. I'm an engineering student and a VicePresident for a NGO.
I want to start a guide about dating. I had my strugles years ago and right now, after reading a lot and going trough a lot of relationships, I put up some steps for the ones that were like me. Strugling. This will be the 1st guide.
I will post more in the future so stay tuned :)
Step #1: Know your target
Research a litlle about the girl you want to start talking with. Look up at a few posts, pictures and descriptions. That should be enough for you to have an idea about what you should talk with her about. Here's an example:
Katie posts pictures with dogs on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. A way to approach her is to comment on a picture asking info about the breed, dog's name or even how old is it.
Don't be a creep or a stalker! Don't even think about saying: "Hey! I've seen you post about dogs weekly so I wanted to tell you I love dogs too!" That is how blocking works haha.
If you can't seem to find something relevant then say Hello and be creative. Lots of girls or guys tend to be sick of small talks. A way to prevent them is to ask important questions(important for them). An example in Katie's case would be what breed would you like to own?
Step#2: Listen
After you've made contact with the person you like it's easy to learn more about them.
Just listen and keep in mind any relevent information like a love for avocados. This way you'll be able to propose something later on much easier.
In this step it's important to learn as much as you can about the person you like.
This way you will know what topics to bring up when you'll meet them.
Don't go to far and ask about family, lovers, future and so. Those are reserverd for face-to-face talks.
I will post more steps and tips so follow me so you won't miss a thing. Also comment if you have any questions about any step presented! I will do my best to help you all!
Welcome to Steem @magdaspaul I have sent you a tip
Thanks a lot @bottymcbotface !
Hey, welcome to steemit! It’s a great platform for expressing yourself and noting down your views. Once you have been settled, money starts coming aswell. However, if you want more people to know about your views, you need to start following other people, as a matter of fact, I have followed you :) you should return the favour by following me! Hope we can be friends :)
Thanks a lot! I already followed you, lets keep in touch :)
thanks a lot for that, i just read some of your posts and they are INTERESTING!!!
Hello @magdaspaul ! First of all welcome to steemit, like you I'm also new on this platform. I really like the initiative you took and hopefully you will develope this subject more. Looking forward to your posts !
Hey! Thanks for the warm welcome!
Welcome to this incredible platform, hope everything will work out for you. Being here it’s not easy but not difficult neither only an extra effort will go a long way, engagement is the key good luck I’m @tinashe Start by Following ,Upvoting &Resteeming people and they will do the same.
Check the contest for newbies-https://steemit.com/steemit/@tinashe/600-followers-feeling-the-love-milestone-contest-of-sbd-inside-post-follow-upvote-and-resteemThanks for the tips, I will use them well!
Nice to meet you @magdaspaul!
Same here! I hope we'll keep in touch!
Welcome aboard, Paul! Follow me at https://steemit.com/@bitgeek
Done that! I'm looking forward at that you'll post :D