When we are in a serious relationship, almost inevitably comes a stage where we start to divide obligations begin to pay more attention to the interests and hinder Do they mate to "do the job".
Right now we should realize and to repeat several times, so that you can grasp very well that our partner has no partner and our relationship is not a company in which each hold a certain position.
Yes, everyone takes certain roles, but freedom is part of them. When she was gone, the relationship inevitably goes with it. This is why you need not pressuring anyone to themselves and to commit today to do this and that - fixed problems that if not done, follow the sanctions.
Figuratively speaking, each as long as he wants to pay for what they want to spend and rather than "pay" and "moisture".
Why should the duties be divided in two and almost to make schedule who does what and when it will end. When he himself ready, he will do it with pleasure. When her and clean, will release good music and make the house shine with cleanliness. It is a question of will, not an obligation.
These things are normal for a modern family. Neither the man nor the woman should not feel like guests who go home to eat, sleep and go out again. Everyone should have responsibilities but no fixed table and willingly - not perpetrated when and from whom he and anyone you wants.
Long since passed the time when women should stay home and not necessarily take care of the home and the husband to work all day and evening and crossed his legs a break. Nowadays, the woman visited the workplace as often and as long as man. Accordingly, they should be willing to take care of daily duties to take care of home ... with passion and love.
Interesting post :) To a degree roles are negotiated and should't be expected. When it comes down to biology, the role is quite simple, if you want children and you want what is best for them (breastfeeding, time with mom, time with dad) then it is IMO best to accept traditional roles such as work and provide resources if you are a man, nourish and maintain the child and household if you are a woman. As a man, you should be mature enough to devote your whole being to making the best possible situation for your family. If children aren't involved IMO it doesn't really matter and is up to the couple.
I will tell you what - I have been married 30 years to my elementary school sweetheart - ups and downs and ups and downs - We work together, work from home, spend every moment of our happy lives together. Its not about whats his or hers and not about who does what. The way I look at it is, if its something he can do, I can do it also - I mow the lawn, change oil on the cars, pick up dog shit, and even ride dirt bikes :) A few years ago, I saved enough money to buy my self a new Hummer Truck :) By the way, this is money I worked my ass of for!! We have a family friend who began begging her husband for a new hummer of which they wound up fighting over - My husband said it best "you have to give a hummer to get a hummer biatch". Be able to take care of yourself if you wind up alone one day .. most relationships take a shit after a few years but don't have to :) Women need to stop looking like a rose but smelling like shit :) Stay youthful and be sexy .. SUNSHINE247
I agree with your point of view but not all the same in some relationships man is more active in other women it is important is to find the balance and not to pay attention to stereotypes and prejudice.
I definately agree with you there :) Keep him stimulated in you and he will not steer away :) Love you Friend and I do love this post!!! SUNSHINE247
Thank you. You look like a person I can learn a lot ♥♥
Any time, I am right here friend!! SUNSHINE247
Nice post ;)