Ladies, have you ever been in a relationship where your man doesn't do the normal things that people in love do. Maybe when he was chyking (a slang in Nigeria that means flirting) you, he was so loving and caring. There was no day he didn't call. He told you all the sweet things and you FELL head over heels for him. You finally accepted him and the first four months into the relationship was WOW!! He sent you so many texts and gifts and you fantasized getting married to him.
And suddenly!!, all those love and care just ended. You spoke to him about it and he changed for a day or two. You kept on reminding him and the whole routine of him changing for a little while continued. Now you do all the calling and texting alone. You are trying so hard to sustain the relationship. It's one year now or maybe more and there's still no change.
Sweetheart, let go!! I know it's hard but try. You are more than that. Someone better will come your way especially if you are good. It might take awhile but it's better than dating someone who is not dating you.
With love from,
Someone who has gone through what you are facing. 
I see your perspective clearly
Lol. Thanks dear
Sometimes its a little bit more complicated than that you know, maybe you were carried away in all the niceness that you did'nt pay enough attention. Letting go is not always the solution, i think you should at least know why first
Noted!! I missed that part. Didn't want to make a long post. Will include every detail in subsequent posts. Thank you