Love and thrill are different; please love

in #love7 years ago

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Love means respecting the privacy of the other party

Always the availability and presence of a permanent at the beginning of the relationship can be a sign of excitement. Of course, being so fascinated does not necessarily mean that the other side will be abusive or restrictive. But he is not a good sign, and he has to be treated with more caution.

In this regard, Robert Valerand, a psychologist and author of The Psychology of Excitement: A Dual Model, said: Extreme excitement and strong desire are more threatened than being useful for a relationship.
When a person loves you, he is sure of you. The lover always loves to be his real lover and does nothing to change her. Also, the lover for the lover's joy will not spare any effort, the most important of which is to preserve privacy and leave some distance so that the person has his own loneliness and his individuality along with his love.

But on the contrary, a person who is excited and not deeply in love with you is very jealous and proprietary. These people generally do not understand that the other side is an adult and has the right to choose and power. Hence, they do not have the opportunity of independence to their emotional partner, and no one likes to have the slightest connection without knowing their love of one another.
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Excited people are always feeling unsafe and worried that their beloved would not love them or go to someone else. These people are extremely defensive and controlling, and they often find themselves suffering and unhappy. It is for these reasons that women who are associated with excited and enthusiastic men often complain of their unpleasant relationship.

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