When one of my friends went to marriage therapy with his wife, they were assigned to read The Five Love Languages.
After both of them read it, the therapist asked both of them which of these languages are most important to them.
His wife smartly responded, "All of them."
I have to agree with her that all of them are extremely important to me through perhaps, I would weight them differently at different times during a relationship.
The next time you see your partner or loved one, why not take the time to find out what their love language is and share yours.
You may find that it takes only an investment of a few minutes, but the rewards may last forever!
So what is your love language and why? @senseicat
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Phisycal Touch:
I’m a very tactile person. My hand will always be on you. Massaging you with my right hand as I drive with my left. Stroking your back while we’re watching a movie. Massaging your legs after a long day. Cuddling you while we sleep. That’s just how I show love. I have high skin hunger. And of course, I enjoy it back so if being touched is annoying to you, we probably won’t be a good match.
Mine Dear is quality time. Quality time helps to bond you guys better and also eliminates room for negative emotions and suspicions that plagues long distance or the I am too busy relationship menace.
Great content sweetheart, keep steeming.
Yes, making time for one another is an absolute necessity to feel close and connected.
Exactly Sweetheart! My point exactly. Smiles. Steem on Sweetheart.
Now I know why my partner is asking so much of my time.
Thank you so much!! I've learned a lot so I can make our relationship stronger.
Time is our most valuable asset for our loved ones.
Yeah I know. That is one of my shortcomings. But I'm lucky that he's very understanding :)
I think that mine is quality time, i love to spent time with the people i love. Good book by the way.
Spending time is valuable and most of my favorite things like taking a walk costs nothing.
Yes, the book really simplifies how we feel most treasured in relationships.
I definitely lean more towards quality time and acts of service. My husband leans towards quality time and physical touch. I’m not much of a cuddler and he’d rather I do the chores/errands but we find a nice compromise.
That is quite an achievement just to be able to know and speak the languages that are important in your relationship and compromise leads to contentment.
It's a bit of a tossup between physical touch and words of affirmation. The two together are magical!
Be sure to communicate this with your partner and loved ones. I think that everyone benefits including your inner circle and children in your life. Kids also have their own languages too and I know mine enjoys being affirmed.