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RE: WELCOME TO SINGLES AND MARRIED, EPISODE #1

in #love7 years ago

The parts that I think should be in bold so that no one will miss it by mistake

  1. From Febizle How do you blend time for your husband, children and still have time for house chores as a woman

In our family, there are no traditional male/female chores - we all pitch in together to get the things done that need doing. I think making sure everyone helps out means you all have time to do fun things together as well

In the context of our marriage, we don't use the word, "submission." When we made our wedding vows, we both promised to, "Love, honor, and cherish" without the traditional "obey" and consider ourselves equal partners.

However, I will say that there have been times that Jim's done things he didn't want to because of his love for me, and I've done the same. Putting your partner's needs ahead of your own could be seen as submitting to them, but it has to be your choice to do so - otherwise it will foster anger and resentment between you both.

People have to understand that you have to give what you want in relationships, it's a mutual love thing, not about one person being the controller.

God bless this couple,

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Hahahahahaha, Amen

Thanks so much, @seunnla! 💜

You're a wonderful couple and I love your philosophy about life. And you're really beautiful