You will never learn the true behavior of life without a break up. Specially with the break up from your first love. Its change your prospect about life in many levels. Even the way you see the world can be changed and you learn the hard truth of "No one actually belong to you" through it. But to do all these things you have to survive a break up. Specially if it is young lovers and first lovers that is quite hard. Some never get over it while some get over it after few months. i still haven't met anyone who get over their first love within months. May be this guide is not for you because different people sob different way but i am trying to generalize it as much as possible.
Step 01 - There is no way to reduce the pain
Yes . No matter how strong you are, there will be absolutely no way to reduce the pain. You have to go through it. Sometimes crying will help. sometimes it wont . But you have to be prepared. its going to be a hell of a roller coaster. But always keep in mind "Its going to be okay" Not today. may be not tomorrow. but someday surely its going to be okay.
Step 02 - Accept the fact that she/he no longer with you
The sooner it happen the better. Our mind always play tricks. show you the past memories and tell you clearly how much you missed it and you want it back somehow . But you have to learn to accept it . She is no longer with you. The dreams you make as a team. No longer there. It might be very hard to accept it . But when you do it you feel much relief.
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I think every break up is different. This depends on how much you loved the person. Some people never get over a breakup. Great article!
Agreed. It takes time and effort . Hopefully my article will help whoever going through this hard phase
It definately will!
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