I have this friend that loves this guy, but she only knows his name. No last name or where he is gone.
I tried to explain her, if you don't have infos like last name or where he lives, you can find him only by pure karmic coincidence.
For the moment she gave up trying, but still have the hope she will find him somehow, someday.
What she tried before giving up? Facebook search, school search(at the reception they told her no because of a privacy matter), nothing, she probably doesn't have a picture of him either.
So, what at the end she left with? a dream, an utopia of finding THAT man, but it's more like she builded the ideal man and will hardly find him, because it's not even a complete ideal, it lacks of the structure, so this ideal I dont know how it's gonna become complete.
I love the fact she is studying and working, but what it matters to me is, will she ever find a person that looks like the dream she's looking for? I just throwed at her the joke of: there are 6 persons remaining like him, go and find them.
I think she is a brave woman, very stable in her opinions, but this utopia is "ruining" her experience of love, and what it matters mostly, love is a natural evolution, and she is missing all these important steps.
I believe she will find the love of her life when less expected, but will the utopia she built in her mind will break in upon her and destroy that sensitive love she deserve to have?
we do not control the things that happen to us, some things are destiny, fate and was design to be.
problem is if a person stucks with an ideal... it just stays there.