Q: what if I want to be single for a lifetime, but my parents disagree?
A: I'm not sure why you want to be single. Is single really so good? Or, you've got some sort of stimulus. Or are you badly hit by love?
Do not you agree that your parents do not agree? Yes, maybe you have a lot of good friends. If you feel this way, you will have no problem in your life, but your friends will be friends. This is friendship, and there is no way to satisfy it in love.
Parents care about you, do not want you to die lonely in this life. So, they don't agree. I will not help you to persuade them. I also hope that you can figure out why you want to be single for a lifetime.
This is the key to the problem. If you get a good answer, think about the next step. But life is long and long. Is it too early to be single?
Q: how do you view a long-distance love affair without calling a video?
A: long-distance love is a purgatory experience for many lovers. There is no way. Some objective reasons can only be separated from the two places. It still needs to be maintained, right? Otherwise, it's better to break up directly.
Now there is such a situation: the lovers of remote places do not make phone calls or videos. Do you, do you feel normal?
Of course not.
First of all, you should want to contact each other's right. Why do not you see a phone call or a video? If you don't want to see each other, how much do you love him? As one can imagine。
Second, you don't want to contact each other. And why? It can only be explained that you have something to hide. Hide what you are doing and meeting with anyone. As a lover, this conceals is a problem.
Do not say any other love is like this. Do you attach importance to a person or a person?
Q: what should we do if we marry a very selfish person?
A: selfishness is human nature. Congratulations, you see through your husband's nature.
Some people say that love is the need to pay, marriage is to learn to sacrifice. But it is not true that anyone will think so. Especially in the face of interests, people will show their true colors. Tibet can not hide, because this is the last piece of fig leaf.
What do you do when you find your husband is so selfish? There are few choices that can be made -
One, trying to change the other
If we can change the other side, we can solve any problem. But don't forget: three, set eighty. If we want to change, I am afraid it will be changed for a while.
Two, try to accept everything
Since the other side can't get started, you can only ask yourself to try to accept it. You may think there is no better possibility after divorce. Or this is not the worst, then bear with it.
Three, turn away bravely and leave
OK, you can see it at the end of the day. Such a husband can not, you can no longer tolerate his selfishness. So, you can only get divorced. Long pain is better than short pain.
Q: what kind of women are the cheapest in men's eyes?
A: I think if this man really likes this woman, she can forgive and understand what she says and does. Just because there is no such premise, you will feel very cheap.
And the premise of my discussion is the same. Women love this man very much, but this man doesn't care about this woman. So, which of your actions will be cheap?
First, there is no self.
What does he say? How do you do it? You don't have your own thoughts. You must turn around him. You just can't get away from this person, you can't live without this person's world, or you will have no meaning to survive.
Second: take money to save
You recognize that money can have everything. Money can also keep this man at your side. But do you know it's a vicious circle? The more money you take to satisfy him, the more he feels you are cheap.
Last: Adversity
You never say "no" to him. Full of resignation, let you stand and stand, let you sit down. Men will not think you deserve pity if they are resigned. More, think that your love is very humble.