God has given married couples a wedding present.
Sex.
The Lord designed physical intimacy to be enjoyed by both husbands and wives. First Corinthians 7 tells us that sex is rooted in mutuality. Husbands are to be sensitive to their wives’ needs, and wives are to be sensitive to their husbands’ needs. Marriage is about serving one another, not demanding your own rights.
Sadly, we live in a broken world that undermines God’s sacred designs. Secular culture portrays sex as primarily for the man. The woman is merely a means to an end. That’s a dangerous belief for a number of reasons, not the least of which is the harm it inflicts on a relationship.
What is God’s design for sex in marriage?
Today people have turned sex into battle or a racing contest. Because, the men and young boys indulges themselves in hard drugs so as to impress or as they'll claim put the women to flight when they can stay much longer period than the woman. Same way too, our women and even young girls do take some of this hard drugs and drinks.
For crying out loud sex is a body, spirit and soul thing not the other way round. "It is never a thing of stress or punishment, it is something to be enjoyed between couples." It is not a do or die affair. 