I always simplify to 'what can I control?' For example, if you're saying that you're constantly speaking to each other in a nasty way, just pick a day and stop. There is no excuse to behave poorly, even if the other person does - and you are in charge of your own behavior. Be the good, kind, person you want to be and then over time you'll see if your partner wants to come along, if the relationship enriches your life.
Key is focus on your part, what you can control - and be the person you were born to be.
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womderful. i am going to give this a go. yay!
Best wishes