There are various reasons why people get married, some are really because of love, there are those who really have no love but believe someday when there is love that will grow, and some will decide because according to the people around him the candidate is the best.
Even though marriage is not something you should try, but keep your heart so that togetherness is not only for a moment and leaves a wound.
Therefore, do not let you get married just because of provocation from the people around you. Because in marriage the time needed is a lifetime, not just one or two days.
do you know why hearing a lot of other people's words is not entirely good? Because listening too much to what people say sometimes makes you doubtful.
Yes, indeed there is no harm in listening to the opinions of people around when they are about to get married, but don't lose your confidence.
Because the value in deciding to marry is the stability of your heart, because if you think wisely, for what according to others it is good if your own heart is still uncertain and often says "not really what I need".
Remember, you are going to live with him, you will be together wading through the bitter sweetness of life with him, and you also have the right to decide. Then decide wisely according to the stability of your heart.
don't be careless and don't lose your identity just because of the many other people's input to you.
Doubt is often present because there are too many inputs, so thinking wisely will sometimes be negligent, which seems to be hearted and the brain must be the only thing that feels good.
Together in marriage that is needed not only limited to love and pleasure, but the ability to be patient and responsible.
Marriage is togetherness which needs its name full responsibility, then don't let you decide "yes". Moreover, your decision is only based on you following the words of others, not coming from your heart's stability.
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