WHY DO MARRIAGES FAIL?

in #marriage7 years ago

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I think marriages fail because intending couple refuse to enter into proper and sincere relationship with God and each other. Those who build their marriages on the foundation of sexual sin eventually find themselves outside the grace of God. Many who fail to prepare very well jump into marriage and eventually jump out frustrated. The marriage covenant should be entered into with full awareness and Gods abiding grace.

If couples are not well groomed in certain marital issues before they get married, such as domestic responsibilities (cooking, cleaning, washing etc), communal prayer, deprivation of sex among them and mutual love in the absence of these, such marriages tend to fail.

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Marriages fail because couples fail to prepare adequately for marital life. They occupy their time and resources in chasing after the things that do not matter in the marriage. Some couples prepares so much for the wedding day without a corresponding preparation for marital life. There is need for a spiritual preparation through prayer and fasting, this will bring the couples into a closer union with God and each other thus a family that prays together stays together. God should be the center of very marriage.

Most of the marriages are bewitched mostly by girls who are desperate to marry rich men. Most of them attend fake churches where the general overseer will tell the desperate ladies to bring the name of the man or his picture, so that,they will invoke the spirit of the man, after that the man will start Without solid investigation. Love and understanding keeps marriage.

Marriages fail for many reasons depending on the couples involves and the culture they come from. But a novel tendency which I'd insidiously and aggressively destroying the institution of marriage is the "ideological theory" which objectifies the conjugal love thereby alienating the place of God in marriages. Thus ,any marriage deprived of God is bound to fail.

Marriage fails in various ways but the fundamental cause should be misunderstanding, lack of trust, pride lack of love humility and listening ear, and accepting rumors without solid investigation. Love and understanding keeps marriage.

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Many marriages fail cos the husband demands the wife to drop her salary.was he the one that trained the lady? Many fail cos of sexual problems too.may God save us

A very important opinion u have issued out my sister but i will like to let u know that 90% of our girls this days are those responsible for this issue and not male.
In many families women don't do much to contribute in terms of financial issue....is we the fathers that they will be demanding to drop our last pay.
We mostly keep them in the house to take a good care of our children,keep the house clean and to keep food in the table too. may God bless us as some wife learn how minimize the rate of consuming in a family.

Marriages are failing day by day, may God help us to uphold our homes

Exactly our prayers, God will hear our prayers and heal our families

Nice write up

Thank u so much boss

Nice one

Thank u dearie for your concern

Thank dearie that what we want in our veriouse famil

Thank you; If both parties make up there minds cool and fine,That is what we all needs in our various families peace love and unity.

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Thanks for this piece

Thanks dearie and may God bless for your concern

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Thanks a lot

Thank you for thanking me deaeie

Your welcome

You're not far from the truth... Thanks for sharing.

You welcome beastie

True talk

May God help us not to fail in marriage.

Yes oo thats our prayer. Thanks

There is also the challenge of not filling the emotional Tank of one's spouse, which can only be filled with Love language.
This is the reason why you need to understand your spouse love language.

Ur opinion is accurate bro thanks

Marriage a very big institution where one never graduate.......hmmmm, thanks bro.

exactly may good help us thanks dearie

Ur right

Thank u for the understanding

Nice writeup

I see u dearie i appreciate ur kind

A very good info u got here, thank you very much and i promise to follow it up.