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- DISHONESTY.
In a good marriage trust and respect must be there for one another, but where lies and deceit is the order of the day, the trust is thrown out of the window.
Marriage is a partnership between two people who love each other and the two have to work together to ensure that there is trust and totaly honesty
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LEADING SEPRATE LIVES.
No marriage can survive where the couple has separate lives and goals instead of having a well-defined line that leads them to one goal.
When couples don’t spend enough time together, the relationship will ultimately suffer and there is unlikely to be an emotional connection.
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LACK OF INTIMACY .
Nowadays couples, especially after living together for some years, tend to believe they have had all the sexual intimacy they would ever want and there is no need to get intimate regularly.
But that is a very wrong assumption as sex is one of the key pillars that keep a marriage together and longer.
A sexually starved husband or wife would ultimately want to get some satisfaction outside, especially where the partner is denying them of their "rights".
However, intimacy is much more than sex because spending quality time with a spouse is another way of them getting connected in all ramification
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PRIDE and EGO
Some men and women have pride and ego in their life, and where a couple allows pride and ego to form part of his or her daily life, there is sure to be trouble looming on the horizon.
Some couple close their eyes to their faults and do not want to admit they are the problem in any setting. For instance,
where a wife earns more than the husband in most cases, pride is likely to set in as she would want to equate herself to her husband as well standing up to him instead of being humble and seeing him as the head of the family which most ladies do, but it takes great understanding from both parties to solve this issue.
Likewise, some men too always wear the tag of being the head and fail to appreciate the wife whenever she does something right and in such a situation, the poor woman could feel dejected and alienated from her husband, leading to a crisis in the home.
- ALLOWING THIRD PARTIES IN THE AFFAIRS.
Most of the couple always make this mistake of inviting third parties into their homes whenever they have problems. Instead of sitting down together and resolving the matter, most of them are so used to telling friends, neighbours, e.t.c their problems not knowing that the more they let others into their affairs, they end up opening their defenses to outsiders who would be quick to pass judgment on them.
Some of these person; In-laws, Neighbours, Pastors, Parents, and even friends are often invited to solve common issues the couple could have solved by themselves and this interference further, deepens the crisis instead of solving it.
Thank you for Reading.
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@originalworks
Well said
This is nice
Well said. Tennage marriage is not helpful to a developing nation and it needs to be handle by relevant auothrity.
This is deep, I commend your effort in putting all this down. Great job
Nice one brother...