CHARACTER OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN
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Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Hey husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared, you refused to eat because you dey vex. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, don't try giving the devil chance to come in.
Issuing threats:
Beating or verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."
Always telling your wife severally that you are the head:
May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.
Reporting your spouse (wife) to friends and family:
When your wife offends you, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
Keeping malice (not Talking with Her):
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticize, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.
Not Assisting her with house chores:
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary.
"Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper or prepare food.
"Lastly, every man should have a church where his family is watered and raised spiritually. This makes you accountable, it's immaturity and dangerous to be a sheep without a shepherd. As you learn and grow in the right fold, you'll be able to take the lead as the head of the home....."
God bless all homes.
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