I always find more wisdom in the words of someone who gets just as confused as I do...lol. Nobody really knows all of the answers...or has life completely figured out. Reading the words of someone who pretends they are completely sorted out and always perfect often has the opposite effect of being helpful. When I read your stuff...I get the sense that anything is possible and it really does not need to be as complicated as I make it out to be...lol. Huge hugs and much love! <3
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Damn, that's one of the nicest comments ive ever gotten @creativesoul THANK YOU! I certainly try not to come accross like I know everything because I CERTAINLY don't but you're right, even if we were to gain all of the answers in life, the questions are always changing!
Best not to grip too hard on to anything and leave room for change and adaptation and try our best to love ourselves in the process, because that's just what it is- a process!
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Hehehe...nicest comment ever to say that's the nicest comment :D
I love the sentiment of leaving room for change and adaptation...that's huge. Part of my process is giving myself permission to do this. I am aware of the fact that I tend to grab onto things and generally refuse to fully admit to anyone that my ideas change and evolve. Because instead of adapting...outside influence or maybe even the perception of that influence...often makes it feel like an ultimate form of failure.
Giving up on the initial investment of time...energy or maybe even money isn't quite as hard as giving up the positive opinions that were generated because of those original ideas. Not caring what people think is way easier said than done...especially in a world that basically runs on a sort of social economy...and when those opinions generated some measure of confidence and reputation...this does not always carry through with the adaptation and often leaves me feeling exposed to negative feedback and ill equipped to handle the reversal. And in my experience with people there usually is one...
One day...my process will include learning how to be okay with these decisions and to be less fearful to always seek these new answers...even when this means leaving behind old avenues and the people that occupied them behind...should they no longer fit with the evolution.
I rambled a bit...so I hope that made some sense...lol. <3