Nowadays anybody can see the lovebirds everywhere, hidden corners of the parks, corner or sometimes even centre seats of the cinema halls. They are actually increasing day by day. Now, this has become a must-have culture to have boyfriend and girlfriend even from class 7 and 8, which is very adolescent years. Small kids are going into depression and hurting themselves just because their partner cheated on them, or their partner is not giving any attention or time etc. It is so painful to see these youngsters wasting their most important part of their age into destructive activities.
It is actually threatening that our youth get spoiled and further it will impact our society as a whole because for any country and society youth is paramount, we should encourage them to live a meaningful life with our compassionate and warm dialogue.
Who is actually responsible for this :
Mass media who normally shows destructive sides of love just to gain their own profits, but this actually brings sufferings to so many lives in later years. OR
We ourselves are responsible for it, the distance between mature persons and youth are increasing day by day, because of this youth have become purposeless, somehow we are also ignoring them by not correcting them warmly or in a friendly way.
We can say that both (Media and We) are responsible for spoiling the future of youth by not correcting them about the wrong understanding of love and friendship.
We should not get influenced by the trend going on, it is not important to do what others are doing, we should not become prey to the media and other negative channels who exploit young people for their own self-profit.
It is natural to feel attracted to, be interested in, and fall in love with the members of the opposite sex, it is totally natural as winter always gives way to the spring.
By asking below mention questions to yourself when falling in love, you actually came to know that whether your love is actually blind or it brings you the freedom to spread your wings and soar into the sky and achieve much greater happiness. So questions are :
Is your love helping you to achieve your dreams?
Is your love causing your parents to worry?
Is your love encouraging you to retrieve your inner potential?
Is your Love inspire you to work harder in life?
Is your love sharing your dreams and goals?
Is your love has become central focus overshadowing all else your family, your friends, your activities, your goals etc?
When any relationship ends, it brings great suffering, all the passion it once had looked nothing but an illusion.
So many youngsters destroying their career pursuits in the name of love because for them love is everything, it is bigger than the life itself.
If you are doing this type of love then sorry, you and the person you are seeing are actually the hindrances to each other life, hence chances are you both would never become happy.
Carry this fairy tale after marriage is not possible if you hammered by the life's ups and downs like you might lose your job in future, your business can go into trouble because nothing is sure in this life than this type of love couldn't survive, that is for sure.
We should not treat love so casually as a game, it could destroy or make our life both. I read that"Love is not two people gazing at each other, but two people looking ahead together in the same direction."
Now question is, is there any positive in it?
Yes, love is the greatest thing in the world if it happens between two sincere, mature and strong people. It is important that two of you improved yourself first.
Firstly you should have some great purpose and mission in life, and love could become your greatest strength and pillar to achieve your great purpose.
Love is the part of life, our life purpose and mission is having a far more significance. Love should be an integral part of our life which needs to reflect on our behaviour towards everybody.
It is beautiful when two people are falling in love and sharing their values, goals and purpose in life. I am sure when this type of love occurs in the society then life will be serene, it gives happiness even amidst greatest challenges of life since you always have a great support pillar.
Let's become wiser in this very important subject of life, and try to encourage youth with warm dialogues on this topic and discuss it openly with the youth so that they can open up and share their feelings with others.
Since love is very complex matter, I am sorry if I hurt somebody but my intent is to share whatever I experience and see about this subject.
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Do you really believe in what you wrote?
100 %, if this type of love is not there then the relation is bound to be dead near future.
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