Probably modern world made us like this. Basically all of our decisions are made based on the idea of a better future. If this wasn't like this, no parent would make their children go to school and college. But in the meanwhile we forget to live, to experience things and to appreciate the moments that will never come back.
Building a future is an everyday task, but when it comes to living life, every little second counts. Planning is good, and take your decisions seriously is important. However, I think we have forgotten that we are supposed to help each other today, and do good today so we can have a better world tomorrow.
The future is our responsibility, and the present is our right. Both can (and should) coexist in our lives.