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The thing that most people get wrong about failure is that it is not permanent, much different to despair that can taunt your life forever.
Failure is like a sharp blade that can cut you down in a second, but you will always be able to rise back up on your feet and move on with your goals.
Despair is more like a blunt dagger that constantly stabs you but does not quite have the power to fully take you down.
That is why your mind is mingled with despair, and as a result, you fail to reach peak efficiency and productivity in your tasks and goals.
Do not fear failure. If you want success, you need to give yourself the opportunity to fail more.
Is that too strange to hear?
Well, let me tell you how I think about failure and then you will see that everything you know about the world is the product of your own ideas about it.
First of all, I never see failure as defeat. Failure is, for me, much more like a sense of added wisdom and experience. You know the famous saying: We learn more with our failures than our success.
When you find success, you celebrate, but when you reach failure, you think. That is why failure is the greatest teacher of all.
People nowadays take failure way too seriously. They cannot even comprehend the possibility that they might fail, and that is why failure becomes a burden to their dreams and ultimately pushes them down.
When you read the life story of successful people, you realize that they have failed many times before eventually finding their breakthrough. Success does not only experience, but it can also help you grow to be a much better person.
When you are facing failure or going through tough times, see it as a spark that can grow your character into something you could not have imagined in a million years.
‘Old roots are not reached by the frost’ goes the old saying, and that is exactly the fruit of failure. You grow old and wise, and then no single storm of any measure can topple you or put you down.
One other thing that you should understand about failure is that it will always show you the right path. When you fail for once, you earn experience.
But when you fail several times, you will begin to see the right course of action and a path that will lead you to success.
By merely believing in the process of elimination, the idea that if you eliminate many possibilities, you will eventually find the right one, we can claim that failure will show you the true path in the end.
A person who is stuck in a maze has a difficult time to find his way out at the beginning. But if he is clever, he will somehow create signs and keep tracks of the paths that he has walked before, and thus he will eliminate his choices and eventually finds his way out of the maze.
If you truly desire success, do not be afraid of failure. Learn how to fail more, and even try to fail more!
Only by learning how to fail and get yourself back up on your feet can you find success at the end of the road.
It all goes back to your mindset and how you see failure, because contrary to popular opinion, failure is never a setback, but a liberator that can give you what you want!
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Failure requires a renewed strength and will to multiply. The first time was your will and your strength at its height, but after the fall it changes, we feel as if everything has fallen with us, but this does not negate that we can rise again and it is not too late. First, it is impossible to rise and continue on your way with the same ideas, so long as your thoughts and data are the same, the outcome will not necessarily change, renew your thoughts, develop yourself to reach your goal. Second, all of us are bent on continuing whatever difficulties we face. , To stop does not mean that the pain ends, standing will make your pain and feeling Double failure, no matter how you looked difficult or impossible to continue, endure the pain and continued to fall circus, will inevitably, success hates the weak cowards, defeatists, the success of the Champions League and the only tournament that biased on yourself and bear the pain and continue your way.
Totally agree
Very well said 🤗😊
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Totally agree with you . As they say, mistakes are learned. In the end, everything will turn out. Thanks for the motivation
also agree
If we meet every failure with enthusiasm, we will certainly succeed. Thanks for the motivation and kind words
Thank you @chbartist a painful failure shows you that there is no hope of standing again, no way out of this black circle, and that you have missed so much that you will not be able to see. Well, all these negative images are created by your mind to stay in your place. , In insisting on staying in the comfort zone, to defeat again in your battle against failure, so; get off these ideas and start again, the correct definition of failure that you tried but your attempt did not affect this time, try and .. Do not stop trying to Reach
Life is a real battle, everyone struggles, runs, tries nonstop, there is someone who struggles with others, there are those who struggle with certain things, but the eternal battle that never ends and does not stop is your battle with yourself, with your failure, with your fears. In which all efforts will be made to emerge victorious, here we will struggle together, our failure, we will face it with all the strength and will, so that we fall to the ground, in only 5 steps to emerge victorious in your battle against failure.
Oh yes @chbartist, an interesting review and you are right to truly achieve victory, we all go through failure and how we feel about failure and our achievements will depend!
Failure is not your end. In the Bible we find several examples of people who failed, despite having all the conditions to succeed. But let me refer to a particular character.
Samson, the Failure of a Hero.
In Judges chapter 16 we find the shameful story of Samson and Delilah.
As you know, Samson was a Hebrew man who was appointed by God to lead his country, Israel, to victory against the Philistines. For this, the Lord endowed Samson with extraordinary physical strength, something like a Hercules or a superman. The strength of this subject was really extraordinary; however, he had a weakness: He let himself be seduced by the sensual pleasure of the opposite sex. In other words, failure was at the door of this man's life. And in fact, the Bible does not hesitate to mention that Samson fell into a state of shameful fornication even for our times: Delilah, a lovely young Philistine led him to the point of breakdown, fall and total sin. Yes my friends, the Bible tells us that Samson failed in his mission to liberate Israel, Samson failed despite initially having the support of God, his family, his countrymen.
What I mean by this is: The Bible speaks of men and women who failed, but it also speaks of the love of God that forgives and restores.
How many of us here have experienced the pain of failure? I'm sure there are people in this community who have experienced the pain of failure in their marriage, failure with their children, failure in their company or business, failure in their studies, failure in their personal lives. Hey, I have also failed! But something I tell you: In his perfect will God uses our failure as a second chance to succeed in life, how many believe it?
Failure is an Opportunity to Grow.
Each failure teaches man something he needed to learn (Charles Dickens, British writer).
Failure is sometimes more fruitful than success (Henry Ford, American industrialist).
Failure fortifies the strong (Antoine de Saint, French writer).
The Bible tells us that no matter how many times we fail, God will always be willing to rise up, God will always be there to help us.
Thanks @chbartist.
Very great post.So you said exactly that failure plays a very roll, in my success, it is not necessarily because we stop once after failure. But rather than failure, your mistakes should be trying to continue to understand.You said exactly that the frustration is like a dhabel but it does not have so much strength that we can remove from our goals.
Thanks for sharing.
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yes
What fascinates me most then is why some people have this in abundance, an unwavering commitment to success which is only inspired by failure, while others lose this willingness or become scared to experiment.
Recognition, realisation or admittance of an error when it has occurred then is the essential necessity of enabling future successes to occur. Identifying an error when it occurs allows you to break free of closed loop failure leading to new potential solutions.
Embracing failure as a part of the process which leads to achieving unprecedented success is difficult. It is even more challenging to ignore the noise that accompanies repeated failure. The constant chatter, criticism and insults can be paralysing. Overlooking this derision and fighting your way to success is the only way you can achieve anything of significance.
Success and failure are inexplicably linked. Successful failure can be measured in actions and what you have learned whereas failure without action leaves the possibility of regret.
I can openly confess I’m afraid to fail, but I am for more afraid that I will fail to accomplish anything of significance. Failure is not a sign that your ideas are doomed but is a necessary step toward success.
Incredible @chbartist ...!!!
Hello Chbartist we have all these people who have sent all these special resolutions who decided they're gonna do all these great things over the next 12 months how many of you have already skipped a workout or do the extra things that you said you were gonna do think about all the people that say man one day if I have this I'm gonna do this do you mean if you have this why don't you go out and make it happen if you keep stick to something for five days you deserve to have a shitty life we're talking about 50 years we're talking about the five years it probably takes to build something worthwhile we're gonna talk about the five months they could take for you to lose a hundred pounds we're talking about five days and you can't even stick to it for that so what the do you think you deserve you deserve exactly what you need that's the things your friends won't tell you when you're picking and moaning about how your life sucks on Friday night drinking a brewski with your boys your mom won't tell you when you're sitting in your mom's basement playing video games when you should be reading or approving or working out or doing something everybody likes the idea success but going out and building a plan backwards from that point that you want to be and going through the day to day to day actions of building that you don't love that idea you like the idea of success as long as it's easy as long as it doesn't take dedication as long as it doesn't take you having to do things that you don't feel like doing when you don't feel like doing them success is grind success is work and success is executed on a day-by-day basis this dance is gonna sky No you are gonna to work there's no magic formula or sweat list solution by which one can achieve their goals there is no shortcut there is no happy you're gonna have to work stop rationalizing stop making excuses tell yourself the truth so that you can get you should be what you do what you know you should do when you pay attention to the little things when you implement true and unflinching and unmitigated discipline in your life when you allow no easy excuses and all that starts when you stop lying to yourself when you tell yourself the truth about where you are so you can make sure you are in the right place and if you're not in the right place that you can give yourself on the path to get there the path of discipline the path of hardwork
Yeah there's nothing wrong with failure, just be sure that you will always get back up and learn from it or else you yourself will become the failure. Nothing can stop you if you keep moving forward :)
There is a very wonderful post, sir. But I do not think that both failure and disappointment are the same, when we start a work when we fail in it, then we are a little frustrated but it is not so worthwhile that Can stop us from achieving our destination.
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Hi @brightsun,
"..... that both failure and disappointment are the same,..... "
It's not to be taken that way.
He has said that failures are the stepping stones to success.
Failure (of course, depresses us initially) inspires us to succeed in due course. Without a drastic failure, there can't be a thumping success!
The taste we derive from the success after such a failure is without any parallel.
While success is a moment to celebrate, failure is a very important lesson that one need to learn and remember all along one's life time.
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@chbartist Sir,
A fantastic blog post Sir.
Failure always lures me to try again and again. Till this date, I faced a failure after failure.
But the Lord showered His grace by giving me encouragement from one person or the other at regular intervals with consistency thereby not giving me a chance to lose interest in my life.
By Her Grace, I am even ready to await Success till the end of my life, but will never stop trying for it. That very thought fuels my mind at all times.
@chbartist Sir, your blog post gave me the much needed dose of encouragement at this critical juncture. Thank you very much Sir.
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Very truth is written friend @chbartist
If we have to achieve success in life then we will be completely free from the fear of failure.
We will find many examples around us which are a living testimony to the fact that they have achieved major successes in the face of many failures.
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Many people suffer from a lot of problems. Making mistakes from human nature, all people commit some of them daily or at some point in their lives, and they have to learn how to accept them and use them in their favor or work to avoid them and learn from them in the future
Fortunately, there are some steps that can be taken to allow a person to easily accept and learn from his mistakes. There are also techniques that can be used to make the most of the mistake.
@chbartist sir
If we are really devoted to our goal then failures inspire us to move forward with better preparation. Together with failure, we also teach that efforts to success were not done wholeheartedly. For example, Thomas Alva Edison and George Stefan can take example of their failures, they learned from their failures that there is a need to make more efforts to succeed. Constant success has made us very confident, which makes us lazy and wanders from our goal. Happiness and misery, success and failure, win and defeat are all these aspects of life, if only one of them is always received, then life becomes monotonous.
Thank you for spreading valuable message
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You will never succeed if you don’t try and can never learn if you don’t fail. Experiences learned from failing is what creates the foundation to what can become your ultimate success!
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Some of my biggest successes have come from the aftermath of some of my grandest failures. Always look forward, and think logically!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm still afraid of failure.There are so many "what if.." when I faced failure. Following your saying, I will see a hope and a different side.
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Life is full of challenge and failure is a kind of challenge too. Personally I take failure as an experience ans in fact it's an opportunity to restart with more knowledge. It's obvious that we can't expect success at first attempt and whenever we face failure, then we earn experience. That experience is going help a lot when we redo the same task. Atleast this time we are not going to repeat same mistakes like before. Thanks for the nice post @chbartist have a great day.
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we all know that a failure person has more experience than a success person But when the strategy of never give-up make him great . If you get inherit success it will for just a while but success after getting fail will be long term success . word fail has full form -
F-first
A-attempt
I-in
L-learning
a person never will fail he will get success or experience . and both are important we all know. Nice blog @chbartist
Your answer gives body to my thought: "Failure does not exist"
@chbartist Fall is a gloomy feeling that loses your enthusiasm and passion, so it is necessary to revive your passion again, especially in your battle against failure. You can not complete your path without passion. Passion is the internal engine of you. It is what drives you to continue no matter how hard you face it. My passion again?
One should experience failure in order for him to know what it is to have to start over. Failures teach us to work hard so that we might grow blisters on our hands but not on our attitudes.
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Hello @chbartist!
Taking things from the perspective and sense of the concept of failure that you show us, it could be said that everything we undertake in life is very experimental.
We should realize that we are scientists and we are doing different tests with a subject of experimentation that is our goal or our dream, and therefore it will be very important to wait for any type of result, to learn from the experience.
Regards!!!
Look for the causes of your fall, watch your steps and look for the step that led to your failure, not only that, as everything happens because of, there is a lesson in everything that happens to us in one way or another, all you have to do is to consider this lesson and benefit from it , To avoid falling again, to think in another way too, and to see from another perspective, believe me learning from mistakes is the right way to success, and experience is the origin of life, what is wrong to try and miss? The important thing is to learn the lesson, and persevere until the end even if others retreat, it is your battle against failure.
@chbartist Failure has more experience than a success . He can better explain and motivate to because only he know how to faces that conditions .
"Failure is like a sharp blade that can cut you down in a second, but you will always be able to rise back up on your feet and move on with your goals." Yaa through it we can get our goal. otherwise it will be only a wish . @ankitjnv
Hell yeah man. I must say thou, every failure comes with a little success. You learn things from failure to build your self as a person... a human. Just know that.
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100% real thought for me.
I artificially create these points of no return to push myself beyond limits… Because when you have to do it or die, you do it
I discover that I always live at the limit.
Do or die, the rest is not worth it.
when you have to do it or die What is the first sense to go when you die?
True words . And i know it from programming. If your code has not the mistakes there is something wrong😁😁😁😁😁
There are no mistakes in life. Only lessons. But it is up to us to seek the lessons within each "failure" if we are to grow.
muchas veces me vi perdido y sin ninguna salida pero la verdad nunca mencione la palabra fracaso, aunque las cosas no resultaron como esperaba yo siempre seguí adelante buscando otras alternativas, sentía que solo no era el lugar por donde tenia que caminar, la vida es difícil, pero nunca hay que rendirse, aunque nunca encuentres la salida, sigue caminando, algún día la encontraras y todo habrá valido la pena. ¡saludos!
Thanks for an insightful post.. It helps me get better and find a job that suits for me..
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I do agree with what you wrote. To all the people out there especially students just remember failures are the building blocks of success. There was a point in my life where I just kept failing and failing in whatever I did. Then depression kicked in and almost won till I chose to not let it win. So keep up the fighting spirit and all the best coming from a final year engineering student who failed almost every exam in 12 grade. Life does get better and old wounds will eventually heal. Just believe in yourself and your capabilities cause we each have so much untapped potential.
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Failure is the big success of life.and ew should alloys remember it ,beacose we larn from our misteck
failures give me the strength to get success in a much greator way .
Wow! such a meaningful content. This boog is inspiring. ait notivates individuals to not look at failure negatively. Yes, failure is heartbreaking. But we need to stand up and learn from it. Take it as a motivation to succeed in the future.
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thank you
I have never met, seen or heard a person who as never failed. Because people fail in so many things. Marriage, business, competition, studies etc.
With this in mind I see no need for anyone to fear to fail. Failure does not define us only what we do after failing defines us. So when you fail just accept that you failed, do not sugar coat it, then move on with your mission.
There's no life or mission as been accomplished in a straight line. When you let failure define you it means your lied to yourself that you're not human, but divine. Because divine beings do not fail only human fail.
Remember this also;
Real life is not Instagram, where the best shot, is edited and posted. The ugly is kept away from your sight. Real life is full of failures.
I close my comment with this quote from Dr Maxwell, he said sometimes we win, sometimes we learn.
Sir always failures leader success failure is actually key of success.
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Sir I 💯% agree with you I realized this fact every failed time getting more and more experience that gives help for growth for batter.
Failure is Kay of much better successful life.
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I remember a video clip that says. "Failure is the mother of all success."
And the most important is how to balance according to the speaker of that video.
Most of us are afraid to fail because its painful. We don't like pain, we fear, much more if death is near, we don't want to die.
Its a lack of faith and belief that make us fearful.
By the way, here's the video I mentioned:
I used to think like this, but now I actually think it's the opposite.
It's the fear of success, not failure - that's scary....
....it takes you to a new place.... A new reality.
And people like the familiar, what they know...
This perspective, looking through that prism , seems to represent a far more an accurate picture... (in my observations of people)
Thomas Edition put it the best, "I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps." Each so-called failure is a step forward toward success. A setback is a step back only for you to see the whole picture better. Without trying, there is no failure, but you are also stuck in life.
Exactly, we as average person always weighs pro and con. We feel the failure of this time is costly and fatal and we can't afford it. Actually, we ignored health and time which is very the large deposit in our life. Keep learning and exploring.
Failures are only lessons. There is so much problem with shaming people who fail because they are in the end the ones who tried, who went further than their comfort zone. If you never fail, you don't try things enough. You can't discover anything if you're too afraid of failing. So many gifts in embracing failures. <3
Totally agree with you . As they say, mistakes are learned. In the end, everything will turn out. Thanks for the motivation
Hello, @chbartist. Success and failure, we do not debate in these scenarios. Failure should not teach the right way, but an inflated ego does not make you see that you are on the wrong path and you are on the same path. And so much failure for not having a balanced emotional intelligence to come to believe that you were born for failure and not insist more. Then the key is to know that a failure is not the total loss, and that a thousand failures are not. Thanks for your tips.