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There are many factors that contribute to one’s success in life. In our previous articles, we have talked about the ways with which you can achieve your goals, like the things you have to do every morning, or how you should bring consistency to your schedule, or how you must change your mindset in order to see your goals as they are and strive in a proper path to realize them.
But like many things, success is a coin with two sides. One side is for the people who see you and your success; how you have achieved great things and how prosperous your life appears as a result of that.
But the other side of that coin is pain and misery; the pain and misery that we will have to go through to achieve success.
Reminding yourself of the pain and misery is often difficult. Many people do not like to talk about this aspect of going after your dreams. One of the most inspiring qualities of successful people is that they all love pain.
That must be a weird sentence to hear, but bear with me as I make this case.
People judge your success with what they see; they know that you have achieved something of true value and as a result of that, your life has improved for better.
Even more inspiring might be the idea that you have also changed many lives with the things you have done or said.
These people always fail to see what you must have gone through to arrive at the place you are now. For them, the idea of success is not something afflicted with pain, and that is why they will never achieve success for themselves.
Learn to love the pain.
Know that the pain of doing something difficult will always be rewarded.
Understand that in order to achieve great things, you must be willing to go to great lengths and pay the price of greatness.
A man who decides to go to the gym and work out has a tough week ahead of him. Perhaps after the first day of working out he will feel pain throughout his body, but that does not stop him, nor does it disappoint him. He does not so easily give in.
Because he knows a principle that we all fail to see. He knows that pain is temporary, while grace is everlasting. To achieve grace, one must be willing to tolerate the pain of the journey.
Obstacles give you challenge and pain, but try to channel that energy into creative force and learn to love the pain that you are going through.
After all, no growth of any measure or value has ever been achieved without pain or hard and difficult work.
The fruit of your endeavors will be to eventually rid yourself of the pain and cherish the result of your achievement and victory.
If you truly want to understand what it takes to be successful, learn to love the pain and fearlessly enter the path that begins your journey towards realizing your dreams!!!!
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You are right about success is like a coin, one side glory and the other side pain and misery.
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Yeah, pain is a force that penetrates the innermost parts of human components causing certain feeling of discomfort and inexplicable sort of agony within.
To endure pain is the fulfillment of the soul's freedom to soar to its highest peak leading to the source of all, the Almighty power.
You are right. If people do not allow themselves to be hurt, to feel pain and get angry, they will never take the next step and will not achieve the goal
If a person goes to the goal, he must always sacrifice with something. Sometimes it is very difficult and painful. But as you say it will pay off in full.
Oh yes @chbartist, I completely agree with you, the price of success has always been difficulties and pain. If we learn to treat our pain more rationally and philosophically, then success will come faster and without serious consequences!
Excellent review, my friend and a very good motivation! Our path to success is always associated with different influences and the pain here occupies a significant place, but this is a natural principle of life, so we just need to understand our pain and direct it to our good! Thank you @chbartist
Pain is not the birth of the moment, some of it is an old legacy passed through the generations, such as the pain of the family, community or society, prevails and transmitted through culture and through learning and imitation as a model for the individual. Some painful positions derived from the experience of the individual himself,
Behind this mass of pain is the ego, which feeds on this weakness and grows, especially from the small positions that start with the idea of pain from something trivial, imaginary or past, so that it grows, grows and swells, and becomes dominant over the person himself, Suffer pain or the same degree, but they have not yet appeared, as they are looking for a similar, the mass of moving pain meets with the static to form a collective pain, and so grow up to form a miserable and frustrated group do not see from life without deficiency and helplessness, we find many criticism and discontent frustrated, Want to work or change or even change the same idea to optimism and hope, we find them - unfortunately - in our societies frequently, living pessimism and living on the margin and dependency.
If the person is immersed in the past sad situations, such as the death of Aziz in the past, and the recovery of that loss and pain, and entering into his circle until the pain, it affects his thoughts and his view of life negatively, it becomes irrelevant or not to accept, and plunge pessimism, even His mental, family and professional life is disrupted, then he becomes a helpless, unproductive person in life.
Living at the present time positively a thousand times better to live the past or fear of the future, or follow the tragic stories or dramatic events.
In order to get rid of this weakness we must realize the mass of pain in us what is it? When does it occur or appear? What caused it? That is, we face it, and gradually we get rid of its clutches without resistance, and reduce the ego, we also take into account our self-talk and make him more optimistic and hopeful, life goes on. Why do not we live in less extreme and painful, because in the latter is the choice of man, and we must be convinced that there are circumstances greater than the human, he must recognize and then go on in a way of life with the strength of determination and optimism and positive, much better than crying and disease, we also We abandon the painful past, the fear of the future, dependence on God, and live the moment that God gave us life and living
You will enjoy the present moment with all the joy or even pain, that is, we face the moment as it is if it is enjoyable, we lived and employed positively in our lives in our homes and in our work, although negative also knew and faced it, to get rid of it completely without entering the process of resistance, What happens sometimes is to escape this feeling, but it dwells in the subconscious mind, becoming a mass of static pain, waiting for the right time to become a mass of moving pain with an endless chain.
That indeed is true that hardwork always pays off! it always gets rewarded. and yes off course the hurdles will hinder our paths in many ways but we should definitely try to overcome them. this article is definitely inspiring.
Keep up with such amazing content.
@chbarist sir
All's well that ends well. After achieving success, the person spent the time spent behind him, mental stress, pain, and failures. Because success is such a drug that after every person forgets every pain. The path to success is never easy. In odd circumstances, it also has to move forward towards its goal. As I have seen on many of your posts that people tried very hard to break your faith and stamina, but you kept focusing on your purpose by not paying attention to them. Perhaps this is the difference between a settled person and a non-objective person. Wanderers are examined on the path only when there are scattered bands in the streets and the patience of the sailor is examined only when the streams are unfavorable. One who knows this principle never fails in life because sadness and failure are transient.
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Saludos @chbartist! El camino al éxito es un camino que se transita en solitario, en éste sentido es doloroso, pero el esfuerzo vale la pena.
Feliz día!No pain and no gain. You will have to accept the fact that once you enjoy the pain, you can enjoy the success even more. The pain that you withstand is not the pain in general. That is the hard work, mental grit and strength you put into the work. It also reflects the pleasure you forego to achieve your target. Great words of wisdom. Keep achieving while you endure pain.
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I think that the effort is very present in our lives, from the day we are born we must work with our mother to go out into the world, to enjoy a beautiful landscape we must sweat and climb mountains, to have children we must give birth, to educate them we must work, the important thing is to know that this effort or pain is not infinite, it is temporary and just like pleasure is not permanent.
That is why the full consciousness of life helps us to cope with those emotions, understanding that in life not everything is pink, but there are nuances, clear and dark, life is pain and pleasure.
Thanks for the reflextions!
Through these years of my life, i realize only one thing - success doesn't come easy.
You are correct about success is like a coin, one side glory and the other side pain and misery.
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You are feeling bad that you are not getting it right or have not gotten it yet, yea, the ones that are getting it right or have gotten it now, at one time felt bad too on their way to success. You are on the right path to success still. Success is what people see but you see both the pain and the success!👌🏾Thank you for this post.
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with previous blog we have some similar . We say that after every night we get a shiny morning with new energy . If any people love the pain what he get in beginning then his ending will be very colorful because if we want to make sharp a stone then we have to rub it . more rub it will more sharp . Basically pain reflect our labour towards that work, How much we love our goal . and last everyone know " No Pain No Gain "
Great @chbartist
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@chbartist in this world nothing is free . we know it very well that we want something we have to loose something . Life is full of troubles we must face them we want success . if you love your it means you are enthuziast towards your goal .sure you will get success.
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Do not despise the days of little beginning, for The Lord rejoices to see the work begin... (Zach 4:10).Starting the process to achieving our dreams could be difficult and challenging but such times are divinely designed to be cherished... Because our success stories are coined from our experiences while starting.
For me failure when appreciated breeds determination which leads to excellence,expertise and perfection. My lecturer tells his students - "challenge your challenger". Don't give up on your Dreams. When you fail once try again but try differently.
Make the failure worthwhile and not empty.
Failure becomes empty when you fail to think before trying and you make the same error repeatedly.
Make each failure count by trying different technique each time.
Thank you so much for this inspiration @chbartist
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Pain is an unpleasant feeling that may obstruct you of what you want to achieve. The greater the burden you bear, the more strength you exert that eventually make you stronger though it makes you weary. The pain of hard work, frustration, failures, denial make you tired and weak but at the same time strengthen your emotional muscle that makes you able to do the things that seem impossible.
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person goes to the goal, he must always sacrifice with something. Sometimes it is very difficult and painful. But as you say it will pay off in full
@chbartist, Pain makes us more strong because pain tells us that without going through from the tough lesson and path of life we cannot reach to a point of success and that is because, the stage of success are attained by some and to be one of those some, life take deep tests and these tests will determine if we will lose or win. Stay blessed. 🙂
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Careful. Fall in love with pain and soon your goals will change to incur more of it. Those people are known as masochists, not leaders of tomorrow.
Waoo this open my mind thanks
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"When it gets difficult is often right before someone succeed"
Difficult can mean pain also and you can make it as hard as you want for yourself
The higher the pain or risk the higher the reward they say...
My post from a few days ago:
https://steemit.com/motivation/@twentyfourseven/motivational-quote-66
Think of it as giving birth to a baby after a painful process of pregnancy and labour one has to go through.
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Even though pain can be traumatising it is good to remind yourself that out of chaos and destruction is rebirth and beauty....Something I am still learning. Ouroboros .
Sir where thair is love thair is vulnerability to pain . love and pain burning point of life.
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One word love frees us of all the weight and pail in life.
Love and pain are bearable if you keep your heart open through everything your pain come become your greatest ally in your life search for love and wisdom.
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As they say, “no pain, no gain!”. Nothing come easy when attempting to change your life and break past the walls built around you from a mental perspective!
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Yes it is right there are two sides of coin. I'm totally agree with this fact and your explanation about it. We have to convert out pain into joy if we want to be successful in our life. Enjoying our failure is the greatest motivation to achieve something. Success is not what you ate today it is all about what you done in your previous time. Changing our pain to Joy is the first step towards success.
Love is all... Never ceases to love, it also contributes to success... the disposition of the mind with the universe. ...
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Pain has the virtue of shaping the character of people and in most cases makes people humbler ... only those who learn to manage pain, can overcome it and get up more strongly.
They say that it is the effort of today, it is the success of tomorrow. if we do not sacrifice something, in search of our dreams, we can hardly reach it, nothing is achieved from nothing, always, work, effort, and dedication will lead to success
the pain that you mention, the sacrifice, leaving our conford area, are difficult things to assimilate, for the human being, to channel this, and overcome the circumstances, is what will allow us to achieve the success we desire.
There are no dreams achieved, without having sacrificed something, time, effort, family, friends, etc. There are things that must be put on a scale, and decide what is more convenient, but, for a person to be successful, he must assume that he will always have something to sacrifice to reach the goal that was established.
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Thanks a lot, most times we give up when somethings require effort from us because we believe what is our passion should just come easy for us, but as you how well written, there is a pain we all must embrace for us to achieve success.
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Excellent words, Thank you for sharing them in the community.
Muy interesante es este artículo para mí.
Lo leí dos veces antes de comentarlo. Estoy pasando por momentos difíciles.
TENGO CIERTA EDAD QUE COMBINADO CON LA SITUACIÓN DE MI PAÍS, PARECIERA QUE MI VIDA ES UN FRACASO.
Tengo un hijo que me lo recuerda constantemente, y eso agrava mi situación.
Estoy consciente que "Para ser bella hay que ver las estrellas" y mi vida fué muy próspera.
Pase por momentos difíciles y percibí el dolor a plenitud como lo percibo ahora, y me sentía satisfecha porque después de tanto sufrimiento tuve abundancia, plenitud, prosperidad y seguridad.
Han pasado algunos años y en Venezuela sufrimos la situación económica que afecta a muchos. El bloqueo económico impuesto por los EEUU es una calamidad y ha deteriorado mi vida....... Pero francamente, te digo que siempre he pensado que todo esto pasará y vendrán tiempos mejores y estas frases son lo mismo que indicas en este artículo.
Pereciera que tenemos que sufrir algún dolor y aceptarlo, para luego percibir el éxito, porque buscamos ese éxito envuelto en ese dolor o fracaso que hoy veo y siento.
Hoy estoy mas tranquila porque sé que después de este malestar y este dolor disfrutaré del éxito que esta en mi camino y que solo debo buscarlo, o esperar.... él llegará otra vez a mi vida.
Gracias, me puso nostálgica , pero me llene de esperanzas otra vez... Pareciera que se me había olvidado que el dolor hay que recibirlo para luego disfrutar de su fruto.
Gracias. Abrazos.
you are correct about success positivety one side nagativity other side positivity you are good..
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