Hi, dear Steemians!
In this post, I want to talk to you about the most destructive characteristic of the human race that is always keeping us from reaching peak efficiency and achieving the things that we were destined to achieve!
In today’s society, it is difficult to find people who have graced themselves with a state of peace and tranquility. We are always stressed out about things that had nothing to do with us and we are always regretful of our own life decisions.
These feelings and sensations have crippled us to the point of forgetting who we are as a species, and what we are supposed to do with our precious lives.
Our time on this planet is limited. We are born, we live, and we eventually die. Against the preciousness of time rises an enemy that wishes us to forget what we are supposed to do with the chances that are given to us.
This enemy is the human tendency to overdramatize everything that happens to them. They try to search for meanings or understandings where there is none to be found.
Something happens across the world and we start to feel desperate.
An occurrence disturbs the balance of our life, but being the overdramatizing creatures that we are, we start to unnecessarily make an issue out of something we could have easily dealt with if we wanted.
This is not to say that we should suppress our feelings or do not give them any validation. But we should always draw boundaries and make sure that our voice of reason is adequately equipped to deal with a situation properly and without falling into the trap of despair.
Our inner tendency to overdramatize can cripple us at every opportunity. The more you learn about this world, and the more you use your logic to assess everything, the easier you will deal with your problems.
We should at least try to see the world from beyond our puny perspectives. Every now and then, we could close our eyes and see the ever-growing universe by standing near the stars that give it light.
Beyond good and evil, beyond pitiable needs and matters, beyond our emotions and values, we can see the universe in its truest form, and there we will find the meaning of existence.
Our habit to overdramatize everything that happens to us or try to find deeper meanings and emotions in small troubles will only lead us to a life of despair and conscious reluctance.
Do not needlessly magnify your problems. For every problem, there is a solution. For every closed door, there is a key. You just have to work up the courage to find that solution and key.
Whenever faced with a dilemma, try to think about it with your logic and voice of reason.
What would be better than being able to conquer life with the power of thought bestowed to you?
A BIG HUG!
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I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
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Excelente post amigo @chbartist, sería bueno conquistar el mundo con las pocas herramientas que nos dan, pero nunca es suficiente, siempre hay que seguir innovando y estar a la vanguardia con todo pero para lograr grandes cosas, siempre hay que estar en positivo, alejar los pensamientos malos, las personas toxicas y de seguro nos va ir mejor y seremos mejores seres humanos, lo felicito de parte de @jorge090202 desde Venezuela un abrazo.
An excellent overview @chbartist and you are right, human nature unfortunately is such that we sometimes enter a state of drama. The problems and difficulties that have arisen on our way, as well as errors in solving them, can subject us to condemn our actions and it seems to us that life stops, but only we can understand that we need to get rid of this quality forever and boldly try acting again our thinking!
I am a believer of the thought that human if want, can conquer and overcome any thing. but in a very positive mindset for sure. I agree from your point of view that most of the times we tend to magnify the issues we have and the problems we face instead we should work upon the solution. Definitely a good lesson to learn here.
keep inspiring us with amazing content.
Of course, we must use the life met by God in the right way.All the creatures in the world have to stay here for a limited time.In all the beings, man is the only creature who can use his discretion properly,If man contemplates self, his conscience paves his path.
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Emotional suppression has negative effects, as exercise of restraint often depletes the capacity for attention, resulting in low performance in tasks involving reflection and learning.
Higher levels of self-repression were associated with depression during a 4-6 week period with worsening symptoms of depression, making many consider suppressing feelings ineffective, increasing stress and anxiety, and leading to increased health problems.Often, individuals are angry because they misinterpret someone else's intentions, and then discover that their anger was in vain. Disappointment ideas may disappear if we try to see the world brighter.
Assessing the situation in a new way does not suppress negative emotions, but makes you feel more positive.
Dear @chbartist
Often things we do not know much about, we are interested in the same things human tendency or always are eager for new things and much effort for those things which do not mean anything to us always harmful it occurs. Before the beginning of any work, the negative feelings arising in our minds that we do not fail anywhere, give us astray from that goal. We unknowingly make our goal difficult. These things that prove to be harmful to our lives. Conquering these means to get the key to success
Thank you for your positive mindset
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Oh yes @chbartist, I completely agree with you that by dramatizing events and actions in our life we do very great harm to ourselves and to the cause we are doing. On our way to our goal, there will be many difficult moments and we need to courageously overcome them not feeling anything without regret, because luck is a great reward for our courage!
Such an informative post I'm totally agree with you. Human nature is really strange we get stuck in small problems and never want to get out we are just believing that we are in big trouble but that is not the point. As a human being we have to think beyond the things we have done. It is necessary to be face our problems according to their size men's we don't have to over react.
This has led me to much success over the years as those close always seek to follow the calm in the eye of the storm. I have been able to look past the “noise” that situations create to find solutions when working with teams often. This has led to focus and execution in achieving goals in theb ong run.
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I agree. I have always thought procrastination was on the same level too.
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I think a boundary is must in that satution you are right about that I agree with your thoughts.
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@chbartist, In my opinion, Humanity pursuing the deceptive Education, History and Truth that's why we are going far away from the natural life and going away from the true meaning of life. But, i believe that one day people will going to understand true meaning of life and will going to leave behind this fake race. Stay blessed.
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You are right there is a way out of any situation. We must look at the world with an optimistic view. And then any problem can be solved
Working on a mindset-a real full-time activity. I personally needed a lot of analyzing, self-reflection to partly overcome old patterns enforced by genetical and environmental factors.
Using our inner power, our intuition is a sure way to accept the situation, remove fear and doubts and the need to over analyse at times of disasters. Trust, acceptance, inner knowing, wisdom and calm are skills to aspire to. Of course there are many more. Sorry, I feel I am rambling.
The only defense against this manipulation is to apply the reason instead of comfort. It is to swim against the current if it is necessary instead of being allowed to take comfortably. Any sect, any religion, any group, any informative means, any leader, any government, any party, any nation, any sport team, any message of the further on should be never more important than oneself. Because it supposes it unavoidably the loss of the personal freedom. Only when all the religions have been demolished, the groups, government's systems, t the domain systems, the influence forms, only then all and each one of people will be been able to consider intrinsically free. But I insist in that the reach of this utopia will only be feasible when each one of those individuals applies the tool that for has given them to it the nature (to say some thing): the reason ability, the ability to think.
We have been marionettes, some marionettes managed by ets, human and hybrid. It is as when in the movies where we see humans going by a thousand tests where many lose the life while the gods had a good time playing, putting obstacles and some were made pass for protective. In that ínterin some humans were the flunkies' of the gods part and they are the traitors, the informers, those that put the physical traps.
Guerra-Delegado Freshh
We are taught to think badly. in the news is usually only reported negative, such headlines sell better. people have lost their faith, it is like then -sodom and gomorra
Hi @chbartist , I am very grateful for your shared ideas how to live better and more successful lives. I like the story written by Robert Fulghum about John Pierpont. The man lived in the USA in 19th century and always beat for humans rights. He aspired for politic offices but he often loosed. At least one thing made him immortal. He brings joy into our hearts at Christmass via carol Jingle bells he wrote.
Suppressing emotions it hurts you.
unexpressed emotions never die.
Beautiful express here hummu natures suppressing emotions mental illness.
I like your thoughts.
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Excellent post @chbartist, personally I think that many times we ourselves limited and in many cases external agents make us believe that we can not get ahead we must start to change from within.
You are really a good human person @chbartist
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If we see bad news far from our reach, we just have to pray that they'll be okay, even a minute of prayer would be fine.
If good news, we thank for them.
We don't have to think them deeply that most of the time our thoughts would just become useless.
@chbartist absolutely correct
One who does not let feelings conquer him,
That person conquers the world
Nice with great taught
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Wow.. that's cool
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hmm nice but is is real ??
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Liked above lines a lot. I think there is no problem in this World without solutions. We hear less and react more which creates unnecessary worry for us instead we should understand the problem first and then work towards resolution.
Thanks @chbartist
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