Writing down your goals and sharing them is a good start. Best of luck with them!
You said your plan is to get to $1 Million net worth and live off the interest (4% or $40,000). Have you by chance read Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad Poor Dad? If not, I highly recommend it. I think it will help you get on a good path toward your goals. Although, it will make you look at money/investments a different way.
Thank you! Rich Dad Poor Dad has been on my list forever, actually. this seems like a good time to give it a try.
I'm ordering it on Audible now - will let you know what I think after I read it