I picked up my pen and made a black dot at the center of a paper and asked my friends to comment on it.
They kept on making the same comments,
"There's a black spot at the centre of the paper", they all said one after another.
No body said any thing different.
No body thought of the entire paper being white except the spot.
NO BODY SEES THE GOOD PART OF YOU, THEY ONLY RECOGNIZE THE BAD. Sooo, BE GOOD