Virginity — Hive

We were discussing about females virginity yesterday and someone was like the only way to know if a girl is a virgin or not is that it's a must for every girl to bleeds during her first sex and sure majority have same mindset but this is wrong... Bleeding doesn't determine if a girl is a virgin or not so I decided to release this article to help educate our young men and women on this issue of girls bleeding during first sex... I the myth about female virginity-why most women won't bleed the first time they have sex. They are there's a very common myth in South and Central Asia (India, Bangladesh, Pakistan e.t.c) and Africa (Nigeria and many other nations) that you can tell if a woman is a virgin, or a by whether or not she bleeds the first time she has sex. There is zero truth in this.
Not all women bleed the first time they have sex, As I'll explain in this post. To understand why some women bleed and some don't, it's very important to understand what the hymen is. The hymen is a membrane that tends to cover part of the vaginal opening (it does not always block or cover the entire vagina, as some people mistakenly think)

Not All Women Have a Hymen

The hymen also differs from woman to woman-like all women have different heights, weights and features, all women also have different amounts and types of hymen. Some women naturally have a very little amount of hymen that covers only a small portion of their vaginal opening (and hence does not really get in the way, during first-time sex) in addition to this, the hymen wears away on its own as you grow up. For most women, the hymen wears away on its own with exercise, bicycle, horseback riding - it can wear off with pretty much any other physical activity, even dancing..! Or from using tampons when menstruating. Especially if the hymen is very small or thin, most of it tends to wear away on its own as a girl grows up. If a woman is born WITHOUT a hymen, she won't bleed the first time she has sex. If a woman's hymen has worn away on its own (which is very common as girls grow up), she won't bleed the first time she has sex. The result is that the over whelpming majority-at least 64% of women - will not bleed the first time they have sex, but according to a study published by the British medical journal. The women who do bleed include:- women with thick hymens (who constitute a small percentage of the population) younger girls. Because the hymen wears away on its own with time, a 16-years old has a higher chance of bleeding than a 25-years old. It is by the time a girl is of or above the legal Age of conset-18,20,24 years of age, for example most of her hymen is likely to have worn away on its own, meaning it's unlikely that she'll bleed a lot. If at all.

However, even she young girl can be physically active, having a thin or small hymen, or have no hymen at all,meaning she might not bleed during first sex-most often, women who bled tend to be women who are dealt with roughly during sex. If the guy forces himself inside the girl, when she isn't ready or when she is not wet, relaxed or aroused enough, he is likely to cause injury or bleeding. Because most people think it's normal for women to bleed the fist time they have sex, they don't realized that this bleeding is a result of the woman having been hurt, and not of the hymen breaking painful first-time sex is generally because the woman is not relaxed or aroused enough, gets hurt as a result, it is rarely ever because of the hymen breaking. The bottom line that there is no way to assess female virginity. Bleeding does not have anything to do with virginity - it has to do with the kind of hymen a girl has and hymns differ from girl to girl from birth. The result is that only small percentage of women bleed the first time..! (only 37 bleed during first time sex, according to the study published in the British medical journal)

Why is this so important to be aware of? I women all over the world get abused injured and even killed due to the myth of 'virgin bleeding' Because most people think that bleeding is a sign of virginity, but women who don't bleed the first time have been divorced, suffered from suspicion leading to domestic violence, abuse and even killed for honour. Educating people that a girl does not necessarily have to bleed the first time she has sex—because not all girls have thick hymens, and some are born with no hymen at all - is important because it can literally save lives. (P. A) I understand that not everyone is able to share materials like this, but I even if they want to however, the only way we can educated people regarding this issue is if it goes into the news feed of as many people as possible, if as many people are able to read it. So please consider to educate the knowledge. Please like or make comment on it.
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