How much energy does a mother have to pay to support a home?

in #mother7 years ago

My mother used to be a housewife. She always huddled around the inside and outside of her home. As a child, for a long time when I was a child, I was very envious of other people's mothers. They were dressed in fashionable clothes and were exquisite. Makeup to go to work, access to a more open world. My mom was busy every day, but she couldn't just sit back and watch TV. Even when she was out, she mostly went to the supermarket in downtown. She also did not dress very well with her face. She was clearly a mark of a face and a beauty-loving person. She rarely bought herself new clothes.
However, the longer I grow up, the more I understand how much my mother has paid for this family.
Once my mother was also a beautiful little girl, dressed in the most popular dresses of today, and she liked the expensive toffee at the time, and occasionally went out to watch a movie with my father.
Gradually, however, time changed his life from "Floral and poems hops" to "Chai Miyou Vinegar Tea".
When she was not married, her money was used to buy small shoes, fancy dresses, milk sugar, but after she became a family member, she had her own small family. She had a husband’s daily diet to take care of, and a small baby had to be worried about her coldness and hunger. The focus of her life has changed. She has changed from the daughter of one family to the wife and mother of another family. She has changed from being around herself to her husband and children.
She didn't dress herself because she didn't think it was necessary, and nobody at home could appreciate it; she rarely bought herself new clothes because she would leave money for the family to buy items that could improve the quality of life.
Once I was sensible and sensible, I told myself in my heart that I would never want to be a woman like my mother in the future, or a woman who had lost most of her self and devoted herself to her family. But I gradually realized that without my mother's arduous suffering, I wouldn't stick to the spring of the ten fingers and dedicate myself to strengthening women in the new era.
She was up at 6am in high school and got up for the toughness of preparing meals for me; it was the thoughtfulness of giving me a cup of hot milk every night while I was reviewing; it was definitely something I would stay with beside me and unconditionally forgive me for supporting me. backing.
At the time of the Chinese New Year this year, my whimper took my mother to the “Chinatown Investigative Case 2”. My mother was a little excited but nervously whispered, “I haven’t been to the cinema for years watching movies.” After watching the movie we shoulder Walking side by side on the dimly lit and shadowy homecoming road, she pulled my hand and spoiled me and told me, "Today's movie is not bad. Before you go to school, take me to see a movie again. "Okay." I endured my sad feelings in my heart and answered her with the cheerful voice. She has not been to the cinema for too long, so she will not use the ticket machine. When she watched me enter a series of numbers and the machine spit out two tickets, she smiled and said, "Now it's really advanced. We bought tickets at the artificial window."
This is my mother, a normal person. The woman who devotes most of her energy and effort to the family in her family. Those mothers who have taken care of their families and careers must have been even harder.
Of course, it is also very hard for Daddy to earn money from the outside. In fact, besides being innocent and unassuming children, no one in the world is not hard-working.
Regardless, I am very grateful to my mother for giving me and for our family. In the first half of her life, she gave me her entire world.
Later in her life, I wanted to take her to see the world again.