Most People arent actually unhappy enough to change. Motivation isnt actually needed. If the why is big enough, the reason to change or act is great enough, motivation is no longer an issue. And to truly change requires sacrifices and courage to truly look at ourselves and everything about ourselves and be prepared to let it all go....and most people just dont wanna go there and this battle to find motivation becomes another distraction created by unconsious mond and your current ego to keep you intact as you are...