Are you feeling tremble to talk with someone? And Especially if you are boy then you are feeling Embarrass to talk with girl. There are lots of people in the world suffering from shame. This is not be repaired in overnight but you need to hard work on it? so what can you do it to finish shame? Here we will discuss 3 effective ways to control your shame or Embarrassment.
1. Use shame as a why
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Why is very important word in this problem. Just ask question to yourself that why i am feeling so shy ? why i am embarrass front of girl? Why other people are talk freely with anyone without any fear? They are also human. So ask these questions to yourself.
And here you will find the main reasons of this problems. Think deeply. This is all depended on point of view, for example, if you see any lizard then you see it as a Unattractive animal. But some people see lizard as a beautiful and pet animal.
So that mean by default it has entered in your mind that lizard is bad so this is the main reason that you are scared of that. But the person who love lizard will not be afraid when it see lizard. So This is the point guys.
Same case in shyness because you guys are not tried to be ope minded with everyone. If you do it since childhood, Now the situation is something else.
2.Make a list of the situations in which you feel worried
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First make the list of less worried things and then make a list of more worried things list. For example someone has a very good personality so how you can talk with him/her.
I think this is the tough thing so you need to make it in last but in first you can use that how to talk with normal person. This is like a game in level 1 you have less difficulties And as the levels increase, the difficulty will increase as well.
Conquer the list
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I forget the most important thing that do not judge people because you don't have rights to judge someone until you are not be perfect. Accept the person in front as he is. If you bring this quality in yourself, you will win.
Now come to the main point and above i said make the list of worried things in which you feel Embarrassed. Now strictly follow your list and complete the task every day. It takes little time but success is not easy.
One day you will forget the shyness and your personality will be improved and everyone will like you and you can make many friends.
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