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RE: RELATIONSHIP TIPS : WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LOVED!

in #motivation7 years ago

Earlier this week I saw a post(a poem to be precise) based on love and after going through it I commented

Love hurts

The author replied

Yes it does

I laughed immediately I saw that. Why did I laugh?

Even with the comment I made, I knew deep inside me that there's more to love than just hurt and misunderstandings.
These two I believe are what makes the love worth the whole scenario.

Love is all about the other person and never you. You can't decide to be selfish and expect love would work (not unless the other party has enough love to forget your selfishness), it's about selflessness, it's about looking to understand and tolerate your partner.

To achieve this full blown spectacle called love the key component to be used is communication. Without it the relationship is just one piece of fallen furniture with no one willing to have a look at it.

Always talk when you're displeased, unhappy, upset, annoyed, when you've discovered something you don't like, when you've been HURT and stop taking the matter to the gods.

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Awesome, absolutely! Thanks for this comment, you know it can stand out even as a post on its own here on steemit and it will fly. And you are right, communication is a vital part of making love work. Thanks again bro @j-stark

Really?

I'll try dropping it on its own. I pray I use the right tags.

I should be thanking you ma'am. You made the post.