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It vexed my spirit when I sat down last night and compare we the black men(africans) and our white men(foreigners) on our behaviors and attitudes towards women, this annoyance and vexation came after watching a movie made by the Nigerian film industry (NOLLYWOOD) titled: OSUOFIA IN BRAZIL.
One of my ways of getting inspirations and motivations is through watching good and inspired movies, you may said the film I watched was just a film thing, but it really goes beyond a film thing, after sitting down to think about it, compare it to our lifestyle and attitude as africans, I realised that what was acted in the film is not far from the truth.
Women has has suppernatural powers which can make a man prominent, famous and successful if used in a proper way and at the right time, or mar a man to doom if misused,then why can't we behave wisely as a wise man and take advantage of such power of theirs for our own good?
This power of theirs is inbetween their legs, and if they set a trap on it to hook you, you can hardly escape it, but why are we killing ourselves inbetween their leg?
This is the question most of us needs to ask ourselves and provide an answer.
They is time for everything in life, anything you rush to eat must at last upset you, and too much of everything is abnormal, they is a time in the life of a man that you don't need a woman so as to be focus because most women are distractors, but a time is coming that you need a woman in full length and during this period, you will be tired of the whole game, then why are we rushing it?, doing the right thing at the wrong time.
As a man, you need to set your priorities(what is mostly and very important to you) on what you need at certain levels of life which are necessities(what you can't do without), what is important to you first should not be women but rather how to attain success in life and a purpose fulfill lifestyle, the attainment of a successful and purposeful lifestyle will automatically invite not just any woman but the best and the woman thereby making plans toward having an enviable family.
An average uncivilize black man thinks about SEX, ENJOYMENT, PLEASURE firstly in their mind while fulfilment and purpose comes later, but the reverse ought to have been the case, you can't count number 2 without counting number 1, because the former ought to be the later and vice versa, to get the right counting, you must count 1 before counting 2, life is like a story building, you climb it step by step, to climb successfully to the peak without falling, you must take the steps one after the other.
Is it because we are black that's why we think like black, a shallow and dark thinking?
But even though we are black in complexion, we are not black in minds, this is just a negative mentality that needs correction, let's change it to a positive mentality and transform the face of our continent and the world we lived in.
And the blacks, God has bless us with many natural endowments, creative minds and lots of talented and genii incompare to other races but we are the one who doesn't allow this blessing of GOD to manifest and shines in us just because of something under the pant of a woman.
My brothers, when will we get rid of this menace that has ruin our personality and reputations?
It is reaping us of our personality.
It is destroying our reputations.
It is killing our generation.
It is drawing us back
We can't do it wrong and get it right, to get it right we must start to do it right.
WE NEED A U TURN
We can still make a change, we can still repair the spoils.
We can still change our reputation to a better.
We can still save our generation from doom.
It all begins with you and I knowing the truth and be ready to take correction.
Today is the right opportunity to do something difference, and you are the right person to create the change, if not today, when will it be, if not you, who will it be and if not?
LET'S FACE THE REALITY AND CHANGE OUR GENERATION FOR A BETTER.
LET US BE THE CHANGE WE ALL SEEK AND TRANSFORM THE FACE OF AFRICA AND IT'S REPUTATION FOR GOOD
THE CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU
PLEASE DO WELL TO READ, UPVOTE, COMMENT AND RESTEEM SO THAT OUR OTHER AFRICAN BROTHERS CAN GET THE MESSAGE TOO.
**IT'S YOUR BOY @MIKE4CHRIST
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thank you dear
Excellent post! You've said it all. But I think your claim of the act being prevalent among guys from the black race may not be entirely true. A man is a man irrespective of the geographical location and his mentality is the same every where.
I believe your suggestions as to how to become responsible and better is valid if followed religiously.
Thanks once more for the piece. By the way I love that picture of Sigmund Freud.
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lols, funny you, you are right dear, but africa is getting out of hand, we just can't focus because our first thought is woman, sex,pleasure before even thinking of our necessity
Our colonisation, war, and slave trades experiences make us what we are. We need Reorganizing, Restructuring, Re-orientation, and possitive thinking towards real life issues. #MyCommonSence
yes you are very right, but the purpose of this post is to create an awareness so as to know the unknown and take the necessary action, it begins with you.
thanks for commenting
Blackman mentality. Example Floyd Mayweather
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Super natural? You also think only Blacks love sex? We think Black because we are Blacks? I would have loved to argue with you but you did not see beyond your region and this made you to generalize.
This post is purely sentimental and i will just pass!
lols, boss speak your mind and let's hear your view.
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