Thanks @kingernie for stopping by. I never said it would be easy. No. In fact the past will present itself before you most time and you can't just help but to get stuck thinking about it.
You can always let your mind drift to the past but don't ever allow it to stay in the past.
I also lost a friend of mine, a very dear friend, some couple of years ago. I felt I would die anytime soon after his death so I keep thinking about it. It's hard getting over this chapter too but I just had to forget the past and save myself from the hurt I feel each time I remember it.
Hmmmm.. I guess it's a gradual process...
Thanks for the post tho. Really motivating..
Thanks @kimgernie for always coming around...