You must have heard of the saying "Dress the way you want to be addressed."
Is that really true, dressing is a powerful tool of identification in every profession, that's why when a doctor is dressed you will know He/she is a doctor and when a nurse is dressed you will know she is a nurse, when an engineer is dressed you will know and this happens in every other profession.
A Profession's dress differentiates them from other profession while I see a man on a White laboratory cloth I will say that's a medical personnel even though He is not I just assume, its like that because of the dressing, because at sight a medical personnel can be known.
However, our society has help carved out what responsible dressing is and what it is not so if I dress in a particular way I'm regarded as a responsible person.
The confusion!
What if I dress responsibly and the only thing responsible are my clothes?
I think sometimes this is where we really miss it. That someone is nicely dressed doesn't make the same person nice automatically, dressing nicely and is not the same as being nice.
What if the man inside a responsible clothes is just irresponsible or a beast?
Jane goes to the bank to make transactions and meets Luke well-dressed on suit and looking smart there was a connection and a conversation ensued just after which they exchanged contact.
They met after work hours in a dinner and the connection grew stronger, and they got closer.
In one of the dinners wines mistakenly poured on Luke from the waiter, Luke rose in anger and verbally abused the waiter so badly, even when Jane tried to intervene he halt at her.
Jane discovered however that Luke was an alcoholic, abusive with words and rude in His approach to people.
The interesting thing is that most people at most times get so carried away by physical appearance that we forget the appearance does not really tell how the attitude of the person.
Reconciling someone who is very nice with appearance and not well do with character is a mismatch.
The appearance of an individual should be given due attention however the inner character should be given so much attention, while the outer beauty of a person may be attractive the inner character of a person is what sustains a good relationship.
Thanks for reading through:
Am your original @prettyjules158.
Thanks to @samest for the gif.
You look take away.
And your shoes are great
Hmmm thanks
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I am tripping
Hahahahhaa lol, take away to where?
Hey girl, you look good. Hope you remember me.
Yeah, I do remember we started this journey together.
It is not always about how we look, but who we really are on the inside. Not all we see is as it appears to be.
Wao.... Looking tantalizing
Well said my dear, its not just all about the container but the content, you look stunning!
Lovely photos. I must say you are beautiful.
I once saw a photo online of how a foreign lady with tattoos all over her body save a little boy whose family threw to the street cos of an accusation of him being a wizard. On a normal day I could have taken that lady as irresponsible but after I read about her good deed my mentality change about people's appearance. It's not always about the dressings we should try to look at what is also inside
Nice write up @prettyjules158
so great & amazing mam @prettyjules158
Cool appearance
Great post!
Thanks for tasting the eden!
@prettyjoules, these write up, is just superb. These, post actually reminds me of a book that teaches that life is viewed from 3-dimensions from God's owns perspective.
Number 1, is very important and most people fail to under stand the philosophy, what "life is a test" entails. Briefly, the way we behave to people or neighbours matters the most. Our attitude towards people will determine how far we will go in life. That was why, David was chosen out of all his brothers. Great write up@prettyjules158
How, we behave to waiters, clients, beggars, the sick, friends and even when someone pours water on you on the way matters.
"Beauty lies in the heart of the bearer and not at the appearance." The beauty in one's heart actually reflects out, no matter how hard one tries to hide it.
Beautiful personality. Beautiful inside and outside
pretty awesome dress what you want to wear it it's your choice none of others business
Buen post @prettyjules158, si dice un refrán que por la forma de vestir se conoce a la persona, "por la maleta se conoce al pasajero" una vestimenta adecuada y cómoda siempre sera la mejor, gracias por compartir.