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I get so upset when in hear things like this because it's statements like this that actually encourage men to go out and cheat.

No matter the circumstance, cheating is never and should never be exceptable!!! If you give your husband the impression that you'll forgive him if he cheats then I guarantee you, he's going to cheat. It's not burned into the male DNA to cheat, it's something that society has gradually encouraged and nortured in the minds of all men and now even women, well let me tell you that it's not true, not all men cheat

My darling, do not settle for a cheating man, do your research on your boyfriend before you decide to make him your husband and don't let what friends who have been brainwashed by society taint what you believe. Not every man cheats, if you expect your man to cheat then you're only going to end up making him cheat even if he has no plan of cheating. All men aren't the same and if a man cheats in a marriage then I don't think he's worth staying with.

Be loyal to your partner and expect nothing less from them, if who ever you're with can't be loyal to you and only you then push them to the side and find someone who will, don't ever accept that mindset that whoever you're with will cheat, because you devalue your worth as a woman when you do so. You're a queen, and no queen deserves to be cheated on, no queen should put up with that no matter what.

I disagree with the statement that all the men cheat. 

It not true, not everyone has the same habits.

Cheating depends on the personal habits of the individual whether they are men or women.

If I have been cheated by a man or woman it doesn’t mean that everyman or everywoman is cheating.

If a man or a woman is cheating his partner then reasons must be looked into.  

However, following qualities should be looked into while selecting a partner:-

Trustworthy: no relation can be strong if partner do not have trust on each other.

Maturity: your partner should be mature enough to stand with you in difficulties.

Openness: partners should be open to each other.

Honesty: without honesty no relation could be last longer. 

Respect: partner should have respect for each other.

Love and affection: Love and affection is the most important quality of partners.

No, it's not. It's never certain. I can say in all honesty that I've never cheaten on my wife since we're together. 

I do speak for myself now though, I know there are men who cheat, but there are also a lot of men like me, who don't.

But, if you live in your relationship with the idea that he will cheat you anyway, and that you'd better deal with it, it will show in your relationship. You will never be fully 'into' it, because you are afraid to get hurt. And if he feels that you are not really into the relationship, he might go looking for that elsewhere.

That's what is called a self-fulfilling prophecy, or manifestation. It happens because you think it will.

But be careful, this does NOT mean that if your husband cheats on you, that it is by definition your fault! Nor is this an excuse for men to cheat! What I mean to say is that if you want a loving and healthy relationship, you both need to be in it whole heartedly.