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RE: Musing Posts 2

in #musing-threads6 years ago

Experts believe that waiting a few years to get married can preclude life stabilizing the more established as well as a lower divorce rate. A study, published the Journal of Political Economy of the year 2008 found that for each year you delay to marry, the opportunities for divorced will is getting low. On the basis of many different studies and survey, the divorce rate could slump to 50 percent if you marry at the age of 25, compared to married in the early twenties age.

There are many reasons why the age of the mid-20s to early 30s became the ideal age benchmark is married. One of them is a factor of maturity. Adult here not only the increase of the age, but also in terms of emotional intelligence and maturity of thought patterns. In her mid-20s, you also counted already mature enough to understand right where love blinded lust and love based on sincerity.

Because, the more mature person, they have spent a considerable amount of time to his self-searching and finally knowing for sure what they really want in life. They also understand what responsibility he has for the sake of achieving life goals. The more mature a person also could indicate that it come with physical maturity and stability of qualified for financial support themselves as well as other dependants.

The higher the education level, the more lasting households

But despite the level of maturity and financial plays a major factor, the level of education is also equally important. Postpone the wedding until after receiving a scholarship, lowers the risk of you to divorce than couples who are educated are low, according to a study of Family Relation of the year 2013.

That needs to be understood, hold off getting married after the lecture is not simply to pursue a degree. Attended extended into the street to open your insights to the world, and the many different people that you will meet to talk and exchange ideas. Gradually, this all can shape personality, the principle of life, and your overall mindset.

When you get married, depending on the readiness of each self

However, of course the decision when to marry cannot be based only by sheer survey results. Ultimately, yourself alone to determine when the right time for you to get married. Whether it's in their 20 's, 30 's, 40 's, and so on. There is no age limit or the ideal period of courtship that is able to guarantee the happiness of marriage. In fact, marriage and divorce is a social phenomenon which is difficult to be measured simply by the numbers.

Nobody forbids to quickly marry. If you and your partner are already equally ready lahir-batin to marry young, sure no problem. But for others, still does not hurt to try once again to strike a heart. Whether you are indeed ready to sail the inner born Ark households, or just simply for the sake of pursuing social status and avoid tedious questions: "when is the marriage?"