Regret is a disease that can not be cured. No matter how effort you try, if something you do not want has happened, you can never change it. No matter how sincere you acknowledge your mistakes, you will not be able to restore the past.
Even if you get a second chance, you should realize that the opportunity will never be the same as the first chance because you got it at different times. Therefore, is not it better to start a good start right than to finally sink into a guilt that ends in regret?
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I am reminded of a man who recently came to me just to talk about his love life. The first time he came, saw his footsteps limp, I knew that the story he was going to read to me was a sad and painful story. Sure enough. He claimed to be left by his lover after years of knitting a love story with him. Initially, I felt pity. I support and give a few words of encouragement to her. But then, I started wondering that there was no way he could be hurt for no apparent reason. Finally, I decided to take her back to her old memory with the girl and I finally understood. He was abandoned for no apparent reason, but I guessed that the sad tragedy he was going through was a consequence of what he had done months ago, when they had just become relationships as lovers. He confessed that at the beginning of their relationship, he did not really love the girl. He even had an affair with another girl. With tears in his eyes, he repeatedly uttered the word 'regret'. He was swept away in a deep stream of sadness and finally wept. I understand that he was devastated. I understand that he has regretted his mistakes in the past and has tried to fix them. But could she imagine the pain her beloved had been holding?
Something like that often happens in our midst or maybe even one of us has experienced it. Many people who establish a relationship without a sense of love and affection, which eventually led to a sense of discomfort and even infidelity. It hurts. One more painful thing is, when we know that our spouses do not love us and cheat, but we still choose to stick with it. It does sound stupid. But sometimes, if we really love someone, that's what happens. Therefore, we need to realize that a relationship of love that is not based on love and affection will only cause hurt and regret. So to avoid it, a relationship should not be woven if it does not really love each other. If you do not love him as a lover, then it is better to make friends only, because a loving relationship without loving is tantamount to hurt. Although in the end we can love him, all will never be the same again.
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