It would be helpful for you to contact with a event management. They can helps you to know the best way to handle finance in marriage.
I can give you some tips it would be helpful for you:
- Discuss with old members who knows about current market price of essentials of marriage.
- Invite few members in ceremony day that saves your huge money.
- Lighting, decoration must be simple.
- Say no to DOWRY system.
Number 4 is dangerous of all them.
Thanks.