Most times I do hear people talk about this and it pinches me to hear many opinion that is most times one sided. Most men will say the women should love more and vise versa.
Many response is always based on self opinion.
The man would say
"If she loves you more, she will always listen to whatever you say"
"she will respect you always and she won't have the nerves to pick quarrel with you often"
"She will be very caring and you will enjoy her to the fullest".
But what if he takes advantage of her and treats her any how just because she loves him more.
The women also have theirs..
A man should love us more because we are special and our heart is flexible. If a man loves more, he will be caring,he won't maltreat us,he will provide whatever we want.
Hmm! Should a healthy relationship be really one sided?
Most human tends to take advantage of every opportunity they have whether consciously or subconsciously. Having the notion that one gender should love than the other won't help a relationship to grow as expected.
True love has no MEASURE. We love together. We care together,we build together. No one should be able to point out who loves more in a good relationship. Both parties should be able to verge for each other when it comes to love matters.
Man should love a woman with the whole of his heart and woman should do likewise. No man will maltreat his loving woman and no woman will nag her loving man. It all goes hand in hand.
Different people with different opinion on this topic but this is my view.(Mutual love)
As much as I love to say that both should love each other equally, I believe it should be the man who should love more.
Due to the maternal instinct of a woman, even if they no longer love their husband most if not all women will try to hold on to the relationship to make the family intact. Same can not be said for men as they think more logically than base their decisions on emotions. If a man feels that the relationship is not working anymore and the family is much better without him, he will definite gave up and leave.
The love should be equal, if any is greater the man's love should be greater. Naturally, women are soft. Women are born to show love. They start with their dolls and when they grow older to date, if they find a man they truly love, they are ready to go against their parents wish and elope or even get pregnant for the man, just to shut the parents up. Such women deserve much love in return from their man. So for me, no one should love more. But if any of the party's love should be greater, then I prefer the man's love to be greater. This is because most society frown at a married woman being promiscuous. So invariably, she is home, loving the man, the kids and making the marriage work. The man should compensate her by loving her all the way and sticking to her.
Most times I do hear people talk about this and it pinches me to hear many opinion that is most times one sided. Most men will say the women should love more and vise versa.
Many response is always based on self opinion.
The man would say
"If she loves you more, she will always listen to whatever you say"
"she will respect you always and she won't have the nerves to pick quarrel with you often"
"She will be very caring and you will enjoy her to the fullest".
But what if he takes advantage of her and treats her any how just because she loves him more.
The women also have theirs..
A man should love us more because we are special and our heart is flexible. If a man loves more, he will be caring,he won't maltreat us,he will provide whatever we want.
Hmm! Should a healthy relationship be really one sided?
Most human tends to take advantage of every opportunity they have whether consciously or subconsciously. Having the notion that one gender should love than the other won't help a relationship to grow as expected.
True love has no MEASURE. We love together. We care together,we build together. No one should be able to point out who loves more in a good relationship. Both parties should be able to verge for each other when it comes to love matters.
Man should love a woman with the whole of his heart and woman should do likewise. No man will maltreat his loving woman and no woman will nag her loving man. It all goes hand in hand.
Different people with different opinion on this topic but this is my view.(Mutual love)
As much as I love to say that both should love each other equally, I believe it should be the man who should love more.
Due to the maternal instinct of a woman, even if they no longer love their husband most if not all women will try to hold on to the relationship to make the family intact. Same can not be said for men as they think more logically than base their decisions on emotions. If a man feels that the relationship is not working anymore and the family is much better without him, he will definite gave up and leave.
The love should be equal, if any is greater the man's love should be greater. Naturally, women are soft. Women are born to show love. They start with their dolls and when they grow older to date, if they find a man they truly love, they are ready to go against their parents wish and elope or even get pregnant for the man, just to shut the parents up. Such women deserve much love in return from their man. So for me, no one should love more. But if any of the party's love should be greater, then I prefer the man's love to be greater. This is because most society frown at a married woman being promiscuous. So invariably, she is home, loving the man, the kids and making the marriage work. The man should compensate her by loving her all the way and sticking to her.