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RE: Musing Posts 2

in #musing-threads6 years ago

one must at least wait two years to increase the chances of getting a happy marriage and last a lifetime. A recent study shows that as many as 67% of couples date and have lived together, but have not married with reason for fear of divorce. This fear does not only come from legal, financial reasons, but also privately and socially if they are divorced. Interestingly, this fear actually provides opportunities for many couples to get a healthy and happy marriage. because it means they will need more time to get to know each other before deciding to get married.
Time Is the only way to activate one part of the brain that is responsible for making logical decisions and plans. However, usually time does not affect your brain when you fall in love with new people and this is what is called love drunk.
One of the problems that often occurs with an intense feeling of love in the early stages is the oldest part of the brain will be active, which is the part that deals with desire, obsession, and motivation.

Feelings This intense love can reduce your ability to think logically and rationally about the couple you are currently with. For this reason, time is needed for the brain to adjust the situation and feeling you feel, so you can find out if the person who is in a relationship with you is really right for you.

I Think that the old and slow process of love to get to know someone will help the brain to organize some parts of decision making. You will know how couples behave with your parents, your friends, how they manage their money, how they argue, and other things.