The sin I have done to my parents.
1. Speak with harsh words.
The sign of a civilized person is to speak words with subtle words because it shows that the person is virtuous and knows politeness and has a gentle spirit. Against an older person, a child must show
From Ibn ‘Amr, from the Prophet SAW said:" The pleasure of GOD is in the pleasure of the father and His wrath is in their wrath "(HR. Thabarani)
Harsh words and derogatory remarks are sometimes:
- High voice or loud when we talk to older people
- Tell someone older with harsh words. Ex: ask for help without saying please "Mom, open the door"
- Quip
- Swear
- Saying to someone who is older like saying a maid
- Yell
2. Throw away your face
Discarding your face when talking to other people is a behavior that humbles the other person and reflects the humbleness of the listener / speaker who turns away.
3. Rebuke
Scolding means to shout or throw words with a loud tone of voice. Scorn is intended to frighten or correct a mistake if the guilty is younger in age and status.