In the word's of Don Vito Corleone, A man who doesn't spend time with his family cannot be a real man.
A man must put solid structures in place before venturing into starting a family and leave nothing to chance.
Our ancestors back then used to have lots of farmlands and animals to sustain their families and have little or no business waking up by 4am for work and returning by 11pm.
In today's world, A man that wants to start a family must have interests and controls that gives him the flexibility of time to enjoy moments with his family.
I believe that the quality of children been shipped out to society would be enhanced if more Fathers spend quality time with their very creation.